Surrogacy

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mollythehen
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Re: Surrogacy

Postby mollythehen » Sat Feb 03, 2018 8:54 am

Hello. It is so sad to read your story. I hope that no one goes through what you are going through right now. But you are a very strong woman, even after all of this you are still looking for ways to get a baby and complete your family and believe me once you get to have your family you will feel a lot much better. And you are very lucky to be born in this modern age. Surrogacy is the best option for you and you should not wait anymore. I know of a clinic, they provide donor eggs which makes everything easy for you. You can always go there and get started with getting your happiness. Look up for BioTexCom and you will find out a lot more about surrogacy. The clinic will provide you with some very nice packages and will look after you completely while you are there. They will take care of your accommodation, food, and travel while you stay there to get your treatment done by some very fine doctors.

prero_na18
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Re: Surrogacy

Postby prero_na18 » Wed Jun 06, 2018 2:05 pm

Hello and welcome to the forum. Sorry about your news of infertility but it is great that you are taking up the option of surrogacy. Surrogacy is completely safe and quite successful. Do pick a good clinic to get it done from. They do let you choose the donor and the surrogate mother. Your doctor will guide you through the whole procedure. Make sure your surrogate mother takes care of yourself and the baby. All the very best and hoping for the best results. Take care.

kawai
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Re: Surrogacy

Postby kawai » Wed Jun 13, 2018 2:54 pm

Hi darling! All that you said is terrible. How are you passing through these harrowing trials?
I can’t imagine how you are now. Hope everything is going to be all right. Bad things used to happen.
We should always be ready. Actually it’s not fair to advise distantly. You’ll manage these troubles well.
I’m sure you just need to me strong. I myself know how cancer can destroy happiness. There’s perhaps nothing more difficult in the world to overcome.
This illness took my children’s father away. He was amazing and strong man. It spares no one.
He suffered from prostate cancer. It was in such active form. I saw how my husband was merely fading.
That was unbelievably hard to feel. Your biggest love disappears with him. You just can’t help or stop it.
He died in two years. We’ll be remembering him forever. You should try hard and keep alive!
Now I’m married for the second time. It took almost 9 years for me to begin living full life. I’m not young and my husband wants having a baby.
He’s actually younger than me. I understood him. It’s a regular desire for a man to have his own children.
That’s coherently. I said to him I couldn’t be pregnant. I’m afraid.
I fear many things. I don’t want to jeopardize myself. My heart doesn’t work as it did it 10 years ago.
Nobody wants to die during pregnancy. I’m afraid of losing a baby. I don’t want to get pregnant after 17 years without it.
It’s dangerous. He agreed. We started looking for options.
The internet offers surrogacy. Before I couldn’t know how many people already had got surrogacy journeys.
Most of them are successful. I’m not at the stage of learning details regarding countries and clinics.
It was my huge discovery to find fertility forums. Such communities teach me to me franker and opener.
I’m learning from someone’s experience. I like watching how different people help each other. It’s all about support and care.
I love it. I guess you shouldn’t worry about egg donors. Most clinics have their own storages.
I know it for sure. Many official sites are telling this. Just move on girl!

kawai
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Re: Surrogacy

Postby kawai » Wed Jun 13, 2018 3:41 pm

Hey! Don’t give up. There’s no reason for it at all.
People gain their happiness through incredible troubles. You should know it. That’s not the end.
I will not mention particular clinics. You can easily do it on your own. Happily, we have a huge spectrum of different options.
There are various clinics all over the world. It’s a good business. Managers establish such facilities everywhere where it’s permitted.
Surely, it’s hard to determine which is better and trustworthy. It’s another question. You’ll have to spend some time for investigation.
First of all, decide which part of world is closer to your house. Are you ready to fly overseas with the newborns? I know the newborns endure even long flights well.
That’s not a big issue. There are more other different ones. Ovarian cancer is now’s plague.
I know too many ladies suffering form this disease. Perhaps the number of people struggling with cancer is increasing. Most say that infertility as such is also increasing intensively.
It’s actually the good news for fertility clinics. Basically it’s contraindicated to stimulate women after cancer. It may harm your body.
A real specialist won’t do it even if there’s possibility to get eggs. The doctors are responsible for you. We remember it and trust them.
Be sure, such clinics have egg donors. Some of clinics are working with fresh materials. You’ll find such without a problem.
Surrogacy with using donor eggs is a regular procedure now. Maybe it’s not that regular. But clinics prefer using donor eggs as they are more confident in those quality.
They don’t want to get involved in endless attempts. It costs too much for both parties. What are your priorities?
Those who are accustomed to paradise service choose USA. They can find a lot of advantages there. People who focus on result could choose other options
Happily, world is offering too much of them. We’re free to choose. Sometimes the one problem depends on money.
It doesn’t cost friendly.

kawai
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Re: Surrogacy

Postby kawai » Wed Jun 13, 2018 4:36 pm

One thing you must be careful with agencies. There are more agencies then official clinics established. Some of them are really skillful in fraud.
You can contact directly with clinics. Sometimes the difference is that clinics can’t help you with exit process. Anyway there are proper among clinics.
They are independent. Such facilities provide you with everything needed. As well they help you with paperwork without helping of agency.
Such clinics have got hired interpreters. You’ll not get in trouble with foreign barrier. The interpreter is your helping hand in dealing with environment.
You will definitely face with other different details. We can’t make you fully prepared. Wish you to find a clinic that you’ll be able to trust.
Don’t consider America in case you have financial problems. It always costs expensively. Know it in advance.
One fat plus is that your baby will be the citizen of US. It’s cool indeed. If you’re from US, you’ll have the other motivation.
It’s latterly cheaper to fly for fertility journey from the USA to Europe. I swear. Many people from Canada and USA do this annually.
Some of them have other treatment there after journey. The service of a dentist and cardiologist is also cheaper.
I’d love to attach one photo. There was statistics model in it. You’d see where most infertile people go for treatment today.
Unfortunately, I don’t remember the site where I was watching it. Keep on using forums. They might be really helpful.
Have you ever registered on health unlocked or fertility friends UK? There is much useful information too. People are browsing through this ocean of forums to find the answer.
It helps people to find like-minded persons. It’s the way to get support. Most of us are friendly to each other.
Many serious problems could be solved there. I think you know it by yourself. Tell us about that how you are doing.
I wish you to have your journey safe. Necessarily keep us updated. Good luck!

chirpyaubrey
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Re: Surrogacy

Postby chirpyaubrey » Wed Nov 28, 2018 12:50 pm

Hi dear, I feel so sad to hear about your situation. This is the harshest thing that can ever happen to a woman. Infertility is devastating. So in spite of thinking anything else go for an adoption. Yes please do not be stressed, it is a good thing for a family planning in spite of all the hurdles. So go for surrogacy, without much fuss.

AngelinaRanier
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Re: Surrogacy

Postby AngelinaRanier » Wed May 13, 2020 1:42 pm

Hello, everyone! A lot is written here about surrogate motherhood in Ukraine. I have my real experience in the Ukrainian clinic. I'll try to write about everything in more detail. We were scared and we couldn't decide on this step for a long time, but we were really satisfied. First, we talked to a doctor on Skype and took the stimulation course remotely - we were explained everything in detail. Later, we had a full embryo diagnostics, our package included the possibility to choose the sex of the child. The husband dreamed of a son, so we chose a boy. It was not very important to me. We chose a surrogate mother ourselves, but it was not difficult - all mothers are beautiful, healthy and adequate there. They are carefully examined, valued and respectfully treated. During pregnancy they are provided with everything: housing, food, clothing. For me it was very important, because I read on the Internet horrors about the exploitation of women. In my opinion, everything turned out quite quickly, after signing the contract, a month after the stimulation our embryo was already transferred. Despite the success of the first attempt, the pregnancy was complicated, and our surrogate mother Natasha was even lying in the hospital. We were very worried. Several times we were sent a report on how the pregnancy was going - an ultrasound photo and an amateur video, how our surrogate mother was doing the ultrasound. There was a feeling of being there, it was awesome. Then we were invited to attend the birth. The births were successful and without problems. After the birth we were given a nanny, we were under constant supervision of a nurse. From Ukraine itself we have mixed feelings. On the one hand it is a European state, on the other - a lot left of the Soviet Union there. There was no language barrier. We had a driver and an interpreter (hello Ksenia and Volodya) so we could go shopping and walk around the city. We were accommodated in a good hotel when we came to Ukraine. We only spent our money on our own purchases and tickets to and from Ukraine. Everything else, including restaurant food, was included in the package price. After the birth of the child we were placed in a separate apartment, with cleaning service twice a week, but we already paid for food ourselves.
Now about the documents. A couple of days after discharge from the hospital, we already had a birth certificate in which my husband and I were recorded as the only parents. Then the lawyers of the clinic prepared an apostille and translation of the certificate and the refusal of the surrogate mother from the child in favor of my husband. In addition, they prepared a lot of documents there: passports, contracts, various certificates, they did it all themselves, we were not particularly worried, we were with the baby. In terms of time, it all lasted a little less than a month. On arrival home, the clinic gave us a lawyer, who helped us already here to pass the procedure of simplified adoption.
I tried to write everything in detail, but if you still have questions, I'll be happy to answer.


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