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Re: masturbation. do you enjoy being listened to / watched?

Postby mostirreverent » Sat Feb 17, 2018 4:39 am

Starshine wrote:Many men need to watch to learn and prevent bad practice.

Personally, I’m relaxed about being watched. Being held at the same time rather than being directly gazed at is lovely.

that struck me as being very odd. I guess if you are best at it, then being held at the same time would be nice. I've never known a woman that preferred her technique though.

Funny, I asked a woman this just the other night. She said yes, but not as much as you liked to be watched :)
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Re: masturbation. do you enjoy being listened to / watched?

Postby Starshine » Sat Feb 17, 2018 10:05 am

mostirreverent wrote:
Starshine wrote:Many men need to watch to learn and prevent bad practice.

Personally, I’m relaxed about being watched. Being held at the same time rather than being directly gazed at is lovely.

that struck me as being very odd. I guess if you are best at it, then being held at the same time would be nice. I've never known a woman that preferred her technique though.

Funny, I asked a woman this just the other night. She said yes, but not as much as you liked to be watched :)


Although 1:1 sex involves passion, caresses and exploration, when it comes to hands you are talking about driving highly sensitive, sophisticated, high end equipment here!!!! Only the person on the receiving end can know the exact pressure and motion to apply and when.

It is not a case of a little rub and it works!

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Postby PrudenceMay » Sat Feb 17, 2018 10:06 pm

mostirreverent wrote:
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ct_black wrote:come on ladies ? i value your input ! :) ive know a few women that get off being watched or listened to be it via phone web cam or live ? even in the next bedroom knowing you can hear them ! so i know your out there ! :D


It's pretty much just something they do for guys.


I definitely only do it to help myself get off. Watching someones interest and curiosity peak just as i am is the best

Do you also like having them know a little more about your alone behaviors when you do it for them.

I hope it is what they might day dream about

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Postby mostirreverent » Mon Feb 19, 2018 5:13 am

Starshine wrote:
mostirreverent wrote:
Starshine wrote:Many men need to watch to learn and prevent bad practice.

Personally, I’m relaxed about being watched. Being held at the same time rather than being directly gazed at is lovely.

that struck me as being very odd. I guess if you are best at it, then being held at the same time would be nice. I've never known a woman that preferred her technique though.

Funny, I asked a woman this just the other night. She said yes, but not as much as you liked to be watched :)


Although 1:1 sex involves passion, caresses and exploration, when it comes to hands you are talking about driving highly sensitive, sophisticated, high end equipment here!!!! Only the person on the receiving end can know the exact pressure and motion to apply and when.

It is not a case of a little rub and it works!

call me Aladdin :D
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Postby mostirreverent » Mon Feb 19, 2018 5:14 am

PrudenceMay wrote:
mostirreverent wrote:
PrudenceMay wrote:
mostirreverent wrote:
ct_black wrote:come on ladies ? i value your input ! :) ive know a few women that get off being watched or listened to be it via phone web cam or live ? even in the next bedroom knowing you can hear them ! so i know your out there ! :D


It's pretty much just something they do for guys.


I definitely only do it to help myself get off. Watching someones interest and curiosity peak just as i am is the best

Do you also like having them know a little more about your alone behaviors when you do it for them.

I hope it is what they might day dream about

it tends to stick in ones mine...
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Re: masturbation. do you enjoy being listened to / watched?

Postby shooter » Tue Mar 06, 2018 3:09 pm

I enjoy watching girls masturbating, it's a big turn on for me and I can pick up pointers, never too old to learn

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Postby Girlygirl19 » Wed Mar 07, 2018 5:02 am

I love strangers seeing me i masturbate in taxis often just putting my hand down my panties and playing a bit and moaning lightly so i know they know what im doing its enough to make me explode when they check their mirrors and stare at my hand moving in my panties

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Postby hummerpaar » Mon Mar 12, 2018 8:47 pm

My wife and I masturbate at leaset 3 to 4 times per week together. She watches me and i watch her.
This is so intimate watching each other during such intense pleasure. :D :D
I am a man and happily married for 38 years. My wife and I love sex and we are very active. Actually never more active before in our lives. As we get more mature, we discover new things and new pleasures. Looking 4 new pleasures and share.
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Postby keed0902 » Wed Mar 21, 2018 6:00 pm

I have masturbated in places where I could be surprised.

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Postby Alleycat2017 » Fri Mar 23, 2018 10:55 am

keed0902 wrote:I have masturbated in places where I could be surprised.


And were you?

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Re: masturbation. do you enjoy being listened to / watched?

Postby Sonja47Bi » Sat Mar 24, 2018 3:38 am

I have masturbated in front of my current boyfriend but i felt it gave him more than it gave me.

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Postby Sexyhotbunny » Sat Mar 24, 2018 3:42 am

I love to do it and have done it . It makes cum even harder

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Postby mostirreverent » Sat Mar 24, 2018 4:01 am

Sonja47Bi wrote:I have masturbated in front of my current boyfriend but i felt it gave him more than it gave me.

Try to bring some sense of dirtiness, or even a hint of shame at him seeing you do this personal act, and it may add some kink to it for you.
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Re: masturbation. do you enjoy being listened to / watched?

Postby Sonja47Bi » Sat Mar 24, 2018 4:10 am

mostirreverent wrote:
Sonja47Bi wrote:I have masturbated in front of my current boyfriend but i felt it gave him more than it gave me.

Try to bring some sense of dirtiness, or even a hint of shame at him seeing you do this personal act, and it may add some kink to it for you.

Yes im sure that true, been years since i did it and lots of things has changed since then for both of us. Thanks for your reply.

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Re: masturbation. do you enjoy being listened to / watched?

Postby keed0902 » Wed Apr 04, 2018 5:58 pm

Alleycat2017 wrote:
keed0902 wrote:I have masturbated in places where I could be surprised.


And were you?


On a highway parking lot. I was on a longer trip.

Once on the North Sea beach. I lay there alone in the dunes. In a hollow. The next people 25 meters away. The way to the showers was too far.

In the last two weeks, my stepson had had Easter holidays. I could not meet my lover. And masturbating what so rarely possible. On tuesday afternoon I lay in the bathtub. I forgot to lock the door.
But I was horny. That's how I played with myself. My stepson could have entered the room at any time. It sounds crazy, but it gave me a kick. :whistle: I came fast and hard. My stepson did not notice. :)


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