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Postby DavyJ » Fri Nov 13, 2015 10:10 pm

I think it depends 100% on where you are in your relationship. Now the OP said they had just started dating and didn't know each other well, so, in that case, its hard to say. If they hadn't agreed to be sexually exclusive, then it would seem to be a total non-issue, if they had, well then its not so clear.

My first wife's bachelorette party had with a male stripper, and it was well known that he was going to try to seduce her after everybody was sufficiently drunk. I didn't see any reason to object, as I knew it was just going to be some crazy harmless fun, so I made sure she knew that whatever happened was ok.

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Postby salli » Sat Nov 14, 2015 10:49 am

My first wife's bachelorette party had with a male stripper, and it was well known that he was going to try to seduce her after everybody was sufficiently drunk. I didn't see any reason to object, as I knew it was just going to be some crazy harmless fun, so I made sure she knew that whatever happened was ok.
Did she get laid?

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Postby DavyJ » Sat Nov 14, 2015 5:28 pm

My first wife's bachelorette party had with a male stripper, and it was well known that he was going to try to seduce her after everybody was sufficiently drunk. I didn't see any reason to object, as I knew it was just going to be some crazy harmless fun, so I made sure she knew that whatever happened was ok.
Did she get laid?
For sure. Don't know what time it was when she finally got back and crawled into bed, but I did get a full account the next day.

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Postby Rreckless » Wed Jun 29, 2016 3:06 am

Made this account just to say the men who let their girlfriends carry on like r F****** mugs and the women who arent single nd carry like this are the reason why men continue to treat women like object because tbh theyre just being used as tools for the dancers to buss a nut..

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Postby Rreckless » Wed Jun 29, 2016 3:08 am

I think it depends 100% on where you are in your relationship. Now the OP said they had just started dating and didn't know each other well, so, in that case, its hard to say. If they hadn't agreed to be sexually exclusive, then it would seem to be a total non-issue, if they had, well then its not so clear.

My first wife's bachelorette party had with a male stripper, and it was well known that he was going to try to seduce her after everybody was sufficiently drunk. I didn't see any reason to object, as I knew it was just going to be some crazy harmless fun, so I made sure she knew that whatever happened was ok.
I Kno this was from 2010 but ur a mug nd ur alright with ur wife getting laid.. its called cheating nd i wdnt be surprised if both of u are divorced by now.. ur a clown

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Postby kinghelfer » Wed Jun 29, 2016 1:15 pm

Made this account just to say the men who let their girlfriends carry on like r F****** mugs and the women who arent single nd carry like this are the reason why men continue to treat women like object because tbh theyre just being used as tools for the dancers to buss a nut..

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Postby Jean-Louise » Thu Jun 30, 2016 4:11 pm

Hi,

I'm a 25 year old lad with a genuine concern! My girlfriend and I have only been going out for a few weeks and we're still finding out stuff about each other.

She's going on a mate's hen-night next week and there's gonna be a male stripper. She's told me that her and her mates have been to seen strippers before and they'd ended up doing more than just watching and that she hoped I wouldn't be upset if it happened again. When I said that maybe I would be, she said its just a laugh for her and her mates and a chance to play with a big willy for a few moments.

I'm a bit gutted to be honest. Does this really happen?
When I get together with some of my girlfriends, we have fun together. No need to waste money at a male strip club. The drinks there usually are overpriced and most of the guys are not that good.

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Postby mx6 » Thu Jun 30, 2016 11:09 pm

Hi,

I'm a 25 year old lad with a genuine concern! My girlfriend and I have only been going out for a few weeks and we're still finding out stuff about each other.

She's going on a mate's hen-night next week and there's gonna be a male stripper. She's told me that her and her mates have been to seen strippers before and they'd ended up doing more than just watching and that she hoped I wouldn't be upset if it happened again. When I said that maybe I would be, she said its just a laugh for her and her mates and a chance to play with a big willy for a few moments.

I'm a bit gutted to be honest. Does this really happen?
When I get together with some of my girlfriends, we have fun together. No need to waste money at a male strip club. The drinks there usually are overpriced and most of the guys are not that good.
Perhaps you should take Tommo's gf out for an evening and show her how to really enjoy herself. :wink:

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Postby Jean-Louise » Fri Jul 01, 2016 12:30 am

Hi,

I'm a 25 year old lad with a genuine concern! My girlfriend and I have only been going out for a few weeks and we're still finding out stuff about each other.

She's going on a mate's hen-night next week and there's gonna be a male stripper. She's told me that her and her mates have been to seen strippers before and they'd ended up doing more than just watching and that she hoped I wouldn't be upset if it happened again. When I said that maybe I would be, she said its just a laugh for her and her mates and a chance to play with a big willy for a few moments.

I'm a bit gutted to be honest. Does this really happen?
When I get together with some of my girlfriends, we have fun together. No need to waste money at a male strip club. The drinks there usually are overpriced and most of the guys are not that good.
Perhaps you should take Tommo's gf out for an evening and show her how to really enjoy herself. :wink:
I guarantee you she would have more fun with us.

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Postby Lettie.S » Sat Jul 02, 2016 7:03 pm

The male strip shows in the UK are quite tame, there's nothing to worry about.
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Postby kazzpards » Sun Jul 10, 2016 1:40 pm

Ive been to many nights over the years Ive sucked and wanked the strippers a couple of times and on my hen night the girls got me that pissed I got f*cked on stage by two strippers x

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Postby kazzpards » Wed Jul 13, 2016 6:40 pm

My eldest daughter reminded me she was on stage when I got f*cked on my hen night holding my had as she had set it up lol

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Postby nakedwaiter » Tue Sep 20, 2016 1:32 pm

Im not a stripper but a Naked Waiter, always on the lookout for more party bookings :)

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Postby DavyJ » Mon Oct 10, 2016 4:57 pm

I Kno this was from 2010 but ur a mug nd ur alright with ur wife getting laid.. its called cheating
Yeah, this text is real hard to read, but no, it isn't cheating if you are both in agreement ahead of time. And I had my share of good times as well, although many less than her, but neither of us saw any reason to count.

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Postby diana_robertson » Mon Oct 10, 2016 4:59 pm

I Kno this was from 2010 but ur a mug nd ur alright with ur wife getting laid.. its called cheating
Yeah, this text is real hard to read, but no, it isn't cheating if you are both in agreement ahead of time. And I had my share of good times as well, although many less than her, but neither of us saw any reason to count.
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Postby DavyJ » Sat Oct 15, 2016 1:56 am

Every relationship has its own boundaries
Quite true. What is important is that you both know and agree on the boundaries ahead of time. There is no right or wrong answer.

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Postby CheekySquirrel » Sat Dec 03, 2016 4:05 pm

I think men worry needlessly about strip nights. Especially in the UK as ime not that many women are into seeing stranger's cocks. Or they merely find it funny.

I've advertised myself as a free male stripper on Craigslist. I was booked once for three girls having a joint birthday. They found it hilarious and had a great time but at no time did they get sexual. They grabbed and spanked my arse a couple of time but it wasn't like they were getting turned on by that.

I've advertised myself since hoping for a repeat but have only ever been approached by gay men or men considering booking me for a female partner and then chickening out.

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Postby CheekySquirrel » Sun Dec 04, 2016 11:02 pm

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Postby debjyoti1981 » Wed Dec 14, 2016 1:36 pm

Did more than hold them :wink: , but im not saying to much on here.
The way you describe it is brilliant, did you ever allow stripper to cum on you? how wild was the experience? Can you please share your story

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Postby DonnaDDD » Fri Jul 07, 2017 4:06 pm

My experience as a 32 yr old woman. Ive been to maybe 12-15 hens nights where there was a male stripper involved. in about half of those the guys showed their dicks, all were quite endowed :) Maybe half again the guys sprayed whipped cream on it and some girls licked it off behind a towel, u never saw them actually sucking it, I did it once myself (im single). Only once did I think the bride bonked the stripper, he had been simulating with all of us , mainly behind the towel but with her we all thought she was actually doing it, we were all really drunk......I think that's probably less percentage than what happens at stag nights!!

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Postby LevonWalker » Thu Jul 20, 2017 5:30 pm

Hi,

I'm a 25 year old lad with a genuine concern! My girlfriend and I have only been going out for a few weeks and we're still finding out stuff about each other.

She's going on a mate's hen-night next week and there's gonna be a male stripper. She's told me that her and her mates have been to seen strippers before and they'd ended up doing more than just watching and that she hoped I wouldn't be upset if it happened again. When I said that maybe I would be, she said its just a laugh for her and her mates and a chance to play with a big willy for a few moments.

I'm a bit gutted to be honest. Does this really happen?

I would pay just to watch such a thing.

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Postby Harmonia1995 » Wed Aug 09, 2017 6:22 pm

Some of this on here has been funny, strange and some of it quite disturbing coming from some men. Some of those men were either very young and looking for kicks inciting more responses from us girls and some were older men doing the same which is quite repulsive. Others are just plainly male chauvinists who have serious issues of sentiments of ownership towards any woman without going into any sentimental relationship they may have ever been in. Those words of slut w h o r e and of the like shows their inability to interact with women and their inadequacies coupled with a lack of security in their character.

Anyway... I find the whole scenario rather interesting and it's also an important factor demonstrating how far woman have come in letting go of the shackles men have conditioned us into over the centuries.

I'm going to recite my experience/s anyhow because I think the whole fantastical world surrounding the male stripper phenomenon is one of hundreds of reasons why us girls don't give a damn what men think as they have never given a damn what we think on their sexual kicks over the decades.

My first experience was when I was 16 in a private hen night (my older sister's) in a local hall... Because I was under age to drink, I was only allowed to attend this part and then I went home because I wasn't going to get into the nightclub they would be going to later.

At 16 you can only imagine how your hormones are going mental and boys are an object of fascination. I'm talking about only 7 years ago which kind of fits into where this thread finished. I'm in my mid 20s now, and I've been to a few stripper events since for celebrations of all sorts. But nothing compared to that first one and to be honest, it's as if it was pre-made for that moment in my life.

There were 4 male strippers, all in the mid 20s I would say and they were all dressed in various different type of uniforms from a fireman, policeman, navy soldier and a mechanic. They were all tremendous with incredible tanned and properly but not overly muscled bodies.... You could say that they were more beautiful than hunky these guys because ever since it's been more of a hunk situation. My sister's best friend organised it and she seemed to have chosen very well! lol.

The first one came out, stripped and there he was in his white speedo type underpants (they all had that thin white cotton speedo looking thing underneath that left nothing to the imagination). He was amazing, he took off those speedos and there you had a very big c0ck which all the girls played with... A bit of W**nking, some sucking and mainly just touching the guy up where every they could get their hands to. He came to me but I was too embarrassed to be honest and all the ladies had their eyes on me because I was the youngest... The laughter was tremendous which didn't help me to lose my inhibitions at that moment even though I really wanted to. He dangled his c0ck in front of me and I swear I suddenly had the urge to got to the toilet an pee... That was the strange feeling that came over me and I even felt like wanting to cry which turned into laughter hahaha. Obviously he then moved on from me and that was that.

But the second guy was the one that marked me for the rest of my life and I won't go on from that one to the rest because the rest was much of the same as the first with the only difference being that I had lost my inhibitions.

The second one was the mechanic who was dressed in tight jeans looking all greased up and dirty. His face was beautiful, dark hair with a tanned body... His body struck me as he took off his t-shirt and it glistened due to the oil he had on already underneath. Then came off the jeans and this is where I almost wet myself because like I said, I haven't seen anything of the like since! He was wearing those extremely thin cottoned speedo type underpants but it seems that due to the amount of oil he had put on them they'd become semi transparent and you could already see the size of that c0ck. I haven't even witnessed anything like it in porn I've seen since. Maybe it was because this struck me in a innocent manner, I don't know. But I swear I haven't seen anything like it again!

His body was muscled the right way without being obsessive and also tanned beautifully. But then this beautiful young man seemed to have this out of the ordinary bulge where you could see the map oc the c0ck fully marked out perfectly... A huge fat c0ck head lay under there and that's where all the girl's eyes went to and where all the comments started to generate. He went and actually came to me first and there was no way in hell I was going to let this one go by... Just to say that to my embarrassment as he stood in front of me asking me to pull down those underpants, that I went and wet myself with nerves (nobody noticed thankfully, but I was soaking in pee hahahaha. He put the typical towel around me and asked me to pull them down. I did so frantically and there dangling like a pendulum I had what for me hasn't ever measured up to the same thing again, the biggest c0ck I've seen in my life. It wasn't just huge (around about 11 inches), but fat and with an incredible perfect shiny head on top! I begged him to stay there a second by almost crying "please don't move, please wait, wait!!!!" hahaha... He laughed and I went straight to work on his miraculous equipment... I actually got him hard too with my hands all over the place and I'm sure I was hurting him because I was squeezing very very hard indeed all over the balls and especially the shaft and head. He then told me to put it in my mouth if I wanted to because he had to move onto the next girls... I couldn't believe what he had asked me to do because for some stupid reason I hadn't even thought that I could do that even if I had already seen it with the first. I sucked that thing dry! He didn't cum (and none of the others did either... Infact I've never seen a stripper cum) but I left him dry if you get my meaning! hahaha

It was amazing! I've always had fun ever since on the few occasions we've gone on these sorts of nights, but nothing like that first one. That guy's c0ck was just out of proportion with the rest of his beautiful body. It was angry looking, it was a fantasy world all in one incredible bulging package.

Just to add... I've never been unfaithful whenever I've had a boyfriend and I've never even gone on one of these events when in a relationship, I've refrained! But as a single girl, there's nothing wrong with it and it's just a night of fun. Certainly no shagging which is something I've never ever seen or even the insinuation of it... Not that you don't think about it though, but you would never do it and I'm sure men know about that feeling when they see a girl that really turns them on with the typical comment of "boy, what I'd do to that". It's the same thing! We girls are human too and many of us also love sex and many of us love men like men love women's bodies.

I have to say that from that moment on c0ck for me is extremely important and I've almost come to revere it in a fantasy sense. I know it sounds weird, but I don't care what my boyfriend's c0ck is like because love doesn't break those boundries and that's where us women (the large majority of us) are different to men. When we're in love it doesn't matter what he looks like and much less the size of his genitals. It may be a contradiction with the start of this paragraph on that I love c0ck, but that's the way it is and that's one of the many reasons why men will never understand us.

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Postby DavyJ » Sun Aug 13, 2017 1:31 am

Can I just ask, what is it guys seem to like so much about this?

There are a few guys on here who seem to quite like the idea, and I recently found out my boyfriend does!

I went to a ladies night just before Christmas, and when I got home I told my boyfriend that I had handled a strippers willy for a bit. I expected him to be ok but a little jealous. He wanted to know details like was the stripper erect (which he was) and did I wank him for a bit.

He also asked if I had sucked him for a bit, and I can't lie to him so I admitted I had. He seemed to get quite turned on by his and asked if the stripper came, which he didn't. We had great sex that night.

Since then it has cropped up as fantasy in our dirty talk a few times. It really seems to get him going.

I am going on a hen do next weekend and my boyfriend has made it clear that he would be more than happy for me to be involved with a stripper again, and he has mentioned the guy cumming on more than one occasion. I must admit I am both a little excited and intrigued, yet a little apprehensive. What if I make the guy cum and my boyfriend doesn't like it after all??

Any comments??

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I can relate to this as my wife had a very good time on her hen night. I am not so sure the it "turned me on"; I think it was more of a "I know our relationship is strong enough that none of this is any threat to anything", and maybe this was a good way to demonstrate that. At the time we both knew that the other had had sex with many people before, and this was all ok, and this wasn't really that different. And of course, I also knew that I was free to do likewise. I think what "turned me on" was the idea that we could both agree that this was all ok, that we weren't going to be bound by society's "rules"; without anyone being jealous or upset or anything like that. And, yes, hearing about all the details afterwards was definitely fun.

Not sure how well I explained this; its hard to verbalize feelings exactly.

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Postby mkebab » Wed Sep 20, 2017 5:44 pm

Not quite a stripper or anything but i watched, amazed, one night a while back when my hubby worked the bar at the 50th birthday of a mates mum.

When it was only her and her old girlfriends left, about 15 old girls i guess, they started getting pretty full-on with my hubby!
Even though he put up a bit of a struggle at first, it wasn't long before they had him pinned down on the floor and were ripping his clothes off!

These old ducks stroked him, kissed and sucked his C*** and when they got him hard took turns to straddle him!! They even got a camera or two out and started posing with his C*** in their mouths and stuff.

It was full on to see as we knew most of these woman well and hubby had even known some of them all his life!
Eventually they jerked him off till he blew his load over the birthday girls face.
Admittedly hubby got a huge tip for the night, but if thats what a bunch of almost senior citizens will do to a bloke after a few drinks when he ain;t even a stripper, imagine what your missus and her mates could be up to...
When you say "straddled him", did they actually have sex with him? This sounds amazing, I would love to hear more details of what happened.

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Postby Curious George » Tue May 01, 2018 5:38 pm

Harmonia1995,
Thank you for sharing your experience with us. I'm glad you "let your hair down" and enjoyed the occasion!

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Postby KBEES » Fri May 04, 2018 6:11 pm

I am not into strippers. I have been on hen nights with strippers and some of the girls do more than watch. In town, we have a 'Gentleman's Club' and it is a bit seedy, but good for a late drink and when the 'dancers' go behind the curtain with a client, all sorts goes on. Some years back, when I was mid-twenties, I went in with Mr for a last libation and as it was summer, I had a shortish skirt on and a tee-shirt, some checker so and so, he thought I worked there and offered me £20 for a dance. Mr laughed and said I should have given him a dance.
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Postby Curious George » Fri May 04, 2018 7:52 pm

How funny, KBEES.

Love your line, I have met someone I cannot live without rather than someone that I can live with.
Exactly how I felt (and still feel) about my departed wife.

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Postby yeahyeah1972 » Thu Jun 21, 2018 12:37 am

Are these types of male strippers still around to book? Having a terrible job trying to find a stripper up near Sheffield for a birthday girl and a couple of friends, where the stripper is ok with a more 'hands on' routine. Everywhere so far is strictly "no touching on privates", which is fair enough of course if they aren't comfy with that, but surely *some* male strippers are still ok with a bit more of an adult theme?

Anyone from the sheffield/derby area able to help source a male stripper that is ok with a bit of hands/mouth on audience participation by the birthday girl? Not looking for a gangbang type scenario haha, but the same level of interaction as on the loverboys website mentioned earlier (very naughty to most, but all done in good fun and with plenty of laughs) is what we are after.

I know this isn't a classified's, but I see a lot of input from the broader minded girls (and some guys) here, so hoping someone may be able to help! Thanks :-)

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Postby CheekySquirrel » Fri Jul 13, 2018 12:47 pm

Professionals can't agree to this as they'd get shut down. They have to say no for fear you are the cops trying to catch them out.

What you need is an amateur willing to do it for free and then it's just fun between consenting adults.

I'd offer my own services but I'm based in London and Sheffield is too far to travel for something that might turn out not to be genuine.

Try Craigslist if the party hasn't happened already.

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Postby weasel » Sat Jul 14, 2018 8:02 am

the stripper agencies _ often have a marketing machine between you and the stripper, if you can find a someone advertising locally that's obviously a small outfit or just one person you're more likely to be able to speak to the guy who's going to be doing the stripping.
that way without being too specific you can both get an idea what is wanted and what the boundaries are if any.

That's how i worked when i used to do it.
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Postby Jack329 » Thu Jul 23, 2020 2:27 pm

I’ve now read the entire thread, skipping the personal insults, and note some very good points. But there are some more points that nobody has made (unless I missed it!). The whole issue arises because of several entirely separate issues:

p***s Envy – a man can be jealous of another man’s wealth, but he acknowledges that he could do something about it. He could work harder, smarter, or even rob the wealthier man. But whereas a woman can buy bigger breasts, a man is pretty much stuck with what nature gave him. It’s almost the only thing he cannot change. A man is judged by his p***s (whether it should matter or not) because it’s the source of human life on earth. Its where the human seed comes from. Cruelly, a man has little control over his erection. You can’t just make it go up and down at will like you can an arm or a leg. Part of getting an erection is feeling good about oneself, for which we need the approval of others. So for the survival of the species we need self-validation. Its sub-optimal, but that’s the way we’re wired.

Jealousy - So the ultimate fantasy is having a huge C*** that every girl can’t wait to get their hands on. The male stripper who gets girls sucking his bigger than average C*** every night and being paid for it is, of course, an intense source of jealousy. Because it’s what most guys secretly yearn for. We can construct objections based around moral arguments, but we’re really just covering up for our own dodgy wiring. How many people do not take cocaine only because of (legitimate) arguments around third-world exploitation? We take consolation in the fact that their lifestyle is likely to be short-lived, and very unhygienic, and that the girls who suck them are not the kind of girls we'd like to settle down with.

Situational Environment – It’s also true that seeing naked men or women in a place where people are not normally naked is way more exciting. If a pretty girl walked into the office in a bikini, our jaws would be on the floor. But if the same girl walked past us on the beach we may or may not even notice. So even if your boyfriend is a well-endowed male stripper seeing him naked in the bedroom is not as exciting as on a table in a pub with all your friends. Your stripper boyfriend STILL can’t compete, unless he meets you in the pub with your friends and strips off.

A common Phallacy – I’ve watched quite a few videos of women at strip shows – some real, others very obviously fake. Now the average erect p***s is 5.8” long – it used to be thought that it was 6.2” but the official medical definition changed a few years ago. Now a graph of the distribution of p***s-sizes shows quite a small standard deviation, so by the time you get to 8” and above you’re looking at a very small number of men, not all of whom are strippers. I think most women see a tied-off erection pointing downwards and assume its 30% bigger when properly erect, which of course it isn’t. The other point is that you assess p***s size not in isolation but in proportion to waist size, height etc. I’m 7” (but feel socially obliged to publish that as 7.5) but I’ve got a 42” chest and a 28” waist – as I’m only 5’6” tall it looks a lot bigger because it’s a quarter of my waist measurement, than my friend’s who is 8.5” with a 34” waist and 5’10” tall.

What do you actually want – the average size is actually the best – in terms of maintaining a proper erection and pain-free penetration. My friend can’t get a properly hard erection, or at least not for very long. And even with my 7” I often see my GF wince when I go too deep too vigorously. I do feel very sorry for guys who are less than average, but I suspect they simply see only slightly larger than average cocks everywhere and immediately feel instant dismay. But we all have to come to terms with something in life, whether it be our careers, our home life, or anything else - no-one has ever got everything they’ve ever wanted. Or if they have, it wasn't for very long.

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Postby weasel » Sun Aug 02, 2020 10:42 am

A common Phallacy – I’ve watched quite a few videos of women at strip shows – some real, others very obviously fake. Now the average erect p***s is 5.8” long – it used to be thought that it was 6.2” but the official medical definition changed a few years ago. Now a graph of the distribution of p***s-sizes shows quite a small standard deviation, so by the time you get to 8” and above you’re looking at a very small number of men, not all of whom are strippers. I think most women see a tied-off erection pointing downwards and assume its 30% bigger when properly erect, which of course it isn’t. The other point is that you assess p***s size not in isolation but in proportion to waist size, height etc. I’m 7” (but feel socially obliged to publish that as 7.5) but I’ve got a 42” chest and a 28” waist – as I’m only 5’6” tall it looks a lot bigger because it’s a quarter of my waist measurement, than my friend’s who is 8.5” with a 34” waist and 5’10” tall.
you're suggesting all male strippers have a large C***?

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Postby Jack329 » Mon Aug 03, 2020 6:28 pm

I'm suggesting (among other things) that most of them are average or only slightly larger than average. I suspect most women are only guessing at the sizes when they go to these events - never seen any videos showing women with tape measures!

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Postby weasel » Tue Aug 04, 2020 8:59 am

ah ok,
those stripper videos might be real, but I don't think watching them puts you in a position to generalise. :lol:

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Postby DavyJ » Mon Mar 29, 2021 5:00 am

I'm suggesting (among other things) that most of them are average or only slightly larger than average. I suspect most women are only guessing at the sizes when they go to these events - never seen any videos showing women with tape measures!
And I would suggest that most of the women are pretty tipsy, if not downright drunk, so whatever they might claim if they tell you later, truth is its probably not as big as it seemed to them. I have questioned my wife once or twice, and she starts with "no, no, it was really 9 (or more) inches". But after more detailed questioning, she usually admits that maybe it was not really that big.


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