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Re: Smaller Size Preference

Postby Curious George » Wed May 09, 2018 5:07 pm

Just_Sal,
Thanks for posting this topic--very reassuring for us guys. We tend to be more concerned with our "size" than women are. Unless we're truly huge, we worry that we're too small.
I really don't worry about it anymore. According to stats, I'm SLIGHTLY above average when erect, but MUCH smaller when flaccid. I'm a "grower," not a "shower".

When younger, and a visitor at San Diego's Black's Beach, I wished I had a huge flaccid one--and bigger muscles--so I'd be more fun for the girls to look at. They looked anyway. In retrospect, I think they were more curious about all the different sizes and shapes than looking for a "Superman". Of course, when they saw a really cute guy, they enjoyed being able to closely see all of him.

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Re: Smaller Size Preference

Postby Starshine » Wed May 09, 2018 7:42 pm

Curious George wrote:Just_Sal,


When younger, and a visitor at San Diego's Black's Beach, I wished I had a huge flaccid one--and bigger muscles--so I'd be more fun for the girls to look at. They looked anyway. In retrospect, I think they were more curious about all the different sizes and shapes than looking for a "Superman". Of course, when they saw a really cute guy, they enjoyed being able to closely see all of him.


I think there is a slight misconception here about women and the visual thing. The visual thing is very much a male trait. OK, if someone is huge you might notice, but more due to novelty value rather than lust.

This is partially the same reason that most porn is pitched at men. Women respond more to (consential; very important) touch rather than sight.

And as I’ve mentioned on FF before, extra large can actually be quite uncomfortable.

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Re: Smaller Size Preference

Postby bob_right » Sun Jun 10, 2018 5:10 pm

Starshine wrote:
I think there is a slight misconception here about women and the visual thing. The visual thing is very much a male trait. OK, if someone is huge you might notice, but more due to novelty value rather than lust.

And as I’ve mentioned on FF before, extra large can actually be quite uncomfortable.


That is slightly surprising. I always assumed that most women would find a larger C*** more impressive. Women on miniwilly, however, have said that they prefer look of a smaller one.

Do you think that most women do not care about the visual impression?

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Re: Smaller Size Preference

Postby Starshine » Sun Jun 10, 2018 6:22 pm

Maybe visual in terms of looks/apperance to an extent but we are more tactile than men and touch/feeling means more. This is why many women are not stimulated by porn in the same way that men are.

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Re: Smaller Size Preference

Postby Ming » Mon Aug 06, 2018 11:37 am

It is important to find a partner of the right calibre. At least, in the ballistic sense. Crashing someone's cervix is not something everyone enjoys, so certain positions are sometimes off-limits.
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Re: Smaller Size Preference

Postby diana_robertson » Tue Aug 07, 2018 4:48 am

Ming wrote:It is important to find a partner of the right calibre. At least, in the ballistic sense. Crashing someone's cervix is not something everyone enjoys, so certain positions are sometimes off-limits.

I find bigger guys can be more fun for things other than penetration. Playing around and foreplay is more enjoyable with a big guy.

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Re: Smaller Size Preference

Postby Ming » Tue Aug 07, 2018 5:30 am

diana_robertson wrote:
Ming wrote:It is important to find a partner of the right calibre. At least, in the ballistic sense. Crashing someone's cervix is not something everyone enjoys, so certain positions are sometimes off-limits.

I find bigger guys can be more fun for things other than penetration. Playing around and foreplay is more enjoyable with a big guy.


it's down to capacity. In theory, all women should be able to accommodate 7,5", but when it's as thick as their wrist, some have found it uncomfortable, and it's just not worth spoiling their fun, but fortunately, I enjoy the 'playing around', too.
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Re: Smaller Size Preference

Postby light1313 » Tue Aug 07, 2018 8:33 am

Ming wrote:
diana_robertson wrote:
Ming wrote:It is important to find a partner of the right calibre. At least, in the ballistic sense. Crashing someone's cervix is not something everyone enjoys, so certain positions are sometimes off-limits.

I find bigger guys can be more fun for things other than penetration. Playing around and foreplay is more enjoyable with a big guy.


it's down to capacity. In theory, all women should be able to accommodate 7,5", but when it's as thick as their wrist, some have found it uncomfortable, and it's just not worth spoiling their fun, but fortunately, I enjoy the 'playing around', too.


But oral is very limited with such sizes not to mention very uncomfortable too.

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Re: Smaller Size Preference

Postby Ming » Tue Aug 07, 2018 11:02 am

light1313 wrote:
Ming wrote:
diana_robertson wrote:
Ming wrote:It is important to find a partner of the right calibre. At least, in the ballistic sense. Crashing someone's cervix is not something everyone enjoys, so certain positions are sometimes off-limits.

I find bigger guys can be more fun for things other than penetration. Playing around and foreplay is more enjoyable with a big guy.


it's down to capacity. In theory, all women should be able to accommodate 7,5", but when it's as thick as their wrist, some have found it uncomfortable, and it's just not worth spoiling their fun, but fortunately, I enjoy the 'playing around', too.


But oral is very limited with such sizes not to mention very uncomfortable too.


And as is the case with Eurovision, the Greek entry is never going to achieve 12 points.
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Re: Smaller Size Preference

Postby Elysa » Sat Aug 11, 2018 12:45 pm

Should I?

Ok, I should.

Big dicks suck. Anything bigger than # inches inside me rips me in half. That's what it feels like. It's not sex at that point, it's torture.

There's only one thing worse than a big cóck, and that's a big cóck attached to a man who thinks sex is a race to the 'finish' line.

I have spoken these words in my past..."Get out of my bed, you're a lousy lover".


No, I'm not saying how many inches because it's all relative, Einstein.

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Re: Smaller Size Preference

Postby shooter » Wed Nov 07, 2018 4:20 pm

Got talking to a business girl once and she told me that she and most of her colleagues preferred smaller one, the large ones were "uncomfortable" and could be painful. Also told me that Asians had very small ones and it was difficult to keep the condom on, they had to hold it in place with a hand. I believe they make smaller condoms for the Asian market.


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