Soraya wrote:I love men with pierced ears! Very sexy! For some reason I find pierced ears on men to be a turn-on!
Many posts here have been by men who always wanted to get an ear piercing but were reluctant because of how their wife or girlfriend might react. For me it is the opposite - I'd wanted for years to ask my hubby to get his ear pierced, but was afraid that he would have a negative reaction.
When I was in college in the 1970s I dated a boy with a pierced ear. It was pretty unusual then, but I fell in love with it! I loved to play with it, take it out, and put it back in, and for some reason it was very arousing for me. But he was a wild, restless, nomad, and really not the sort of person I wanted to spend a life with, so we drifted apart. But I never could get over the earring attraction. I married my husband who is a fine upstanding man, and life was (and still is) good. Over the years I kept wanting to ask him to pierce and ear, but I couldn't bring myself to do it - I was afraid he would think it was creepy. I would play with his earlobes in bed, and tell him that I thought they were sexy, with the absurd hope that he would say, "How would you like it if I got them pierced." Ha!
Several years ago out of the blue, he politely and rather awkwardly asked if I had ever considered getting a tattoo. He said that he had always found women with tattoos to be extremely attractive, but was afraid to tell me. I had never considered it, but after several weeks of soul-searching, I decided that I was willing to get one to please him, and that I actually was intrigued with the idea of being a tattooed lady. I got one in a very concealable location, and loved it so much that I immediately wanted more!
Since hubby had taken the risk to confide in me that he found tattooed women to be attractive, and asked me to get one, I started to feel more comfortable about confiding in him about my pierced ear attraction, but it still took me a while to find the right moment. About a year after my first tattoo, I got a second one - this one quite visible - a beautiful floral piece on my upper arm. A few months after that the moment was right. We were out at a very nice restaurant, as we sat enjoying our after dinner drinks, I moved in for the kill. I rather deliberately removed my cardigan and stroked my tattoo with my hand. And as I expected, he commented that he loved my tattoo. We talked about it flirtatiously and I reached across the table and caressed the side of his face and and then his earlobe. I said, "You know how you wanted me to get a tattoo, because you found them to be attractive? Well, I've never told you, but I feel same way about pierced ears. I'd like for you to get your ear pierced. Would you do that for me? Maybe I'll get another tattoo for you."
I knew I had him! He of course agreed, and a few weeks later he got his left ear pierced with a 14 gauge captive bead ring. He has since stretched it to 10 gauge. I love playing with it - it really gets me going! I continue to add to my tattoo collection, and we joke that every time I get a tattoo, I'm going to make him get another piercing or stretch his current one. Although it hasn't really worked out that way every time, it is fun to talk about it. But we are definitely thinking about getting him a second piercing in the same lobe when I get my next tattoo.
What a fantastic story! Similar story here. My wife has triple pierced ears that I did for her and 4 very pretty tattoos. I know the feeling of sliding earrings in and out on her and on me. Does toying with his earring still turn you on ?