Cigarettes and how I hate them

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Cigarettes and how I hate them

Postby Tonyspurplefloozie » Mon Nov 04, 2013 11:31 pm

I need to let off steam about how much I hate them. Grrrrr- arghhhhhhh
That was me shouting
My partner has gone back onto cigarettes after a "stressful moment" that has escalated into a packet ....
I just hate the stench that they give..... Despite the fact he cleans his teeth, showers etc etc... I can't still smell it on his skin....
I went to grab him earlier and give him a kiss and he said no you won't want to do that ... He obviously went outside for a cigarette just before a bath ....
My heart just sank...... It makes me so sad ... :cry:
He knows I hate it too... I understand it's hard to give up ....
I don't want to keep mentioning it but I feel so so - arghhhhhhhhhhh
Bleep bleep bleep cigarettes - I want to crush them into little pieces and stamp on them ......
Wanted to come on here and vent my frustration instead of having a go at him ....
Life is not a rehearsal
So lets get out the vodka and F***

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Re: Cigarettes and how I hate them

Postby jinjin » Thu Nov 07, 2013 1:56 am

Show him pictures of what is happening inside his body.
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Re: Cigarettes and how I hate them

Postby Tonyspurplefloozie » Tue Dec 31, 2013 12:32 am

I wish it would make a difference . Frankly I don't think it would because he's a habitual smoker and no matter what I say it won't matter a damn and he's not really interested in giving up I think .
The cigarettes are always going to come before me in his life
I know that and it really hurts
so it's going to be down to me whether I live with it or walk away . Trouble is this man is the one I have that I am so deeply in love with that to walk away will kill me
Life is not a rehearsal
So lets get out the vodka and F***

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Re: Cigarettes and how I hate them

Postby mostirreverent » Thu Jan 02, 2014 11:39 pm

jinjin wrote:Show him pictures of what is happening inside his body.

I stopped 20 years ago, and am still waiting to find out I have a terminal brain tumor, so I can start again.
"I haven't a particle of confidence in a man who has no redeeming petty vices."
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Re: Cigarettes and how I hate them

Postby mostirreverent » Thu Jan 02, 2014 11:41 pm

Tonyspurplefloozie wrote:I wish it would make a difference . Frankly I don't think it would because he's a habitual smoker and no matter what I say it won't matter a damn and he's not really interested in giving up I think .
The cigarettes are always going to come before me in his life
I know that and it really hurts
so it's going to be down to me whether I live with it or walk away . Trouble is this man is the one I have that I am so deeply in love with that to walk away will kill me


I tried a few times, but it wasn't until I realized that it was really the path I wanted, that it worked.
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Re: Cigarettes and how I hate them

Postby Lena » Thu Jan 09, 2014 5:44 pm

mostirreverent wrote:
jinjin wrote:Show him pictures of what is happening inside his body.

I stopped 20 years ago, and am still waiting to find out I have a terminal brain tumor, so I can start again.


:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

I quit 8 years ago and am happy about doing so .
Alive in spite of myself and looking at the world .........


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