Why are women difficult as friends?

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Re: Why are women difficult as friends?

Postby spinx » Sun Mar 13, 2016 8:52 pm

i have always found girls are harder than boys to be friends with, maybe im a twin and i used to hang around with my twin bro, i was like a tomboy as a kid lol. i am getting on better with men these days, i have a couple of female friends and really enjoy there company but men are drawn to me than women, is it a vibe im giving out that i dont know lol :twisted:

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Re: Why are women difficult as friends?

Postby Astrid » Tue Mar 22, 2016 4:56 pm

Men can be pretty catty too. Just depends on the person, not the gender.

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Re: Why are women difficult as friends?

Postby Kilgoretrout1 » Tue Apr 05, 2016 5:59 am

Astrid wrote:Men can be pretty catty too. Just depends on the person, not the gender.

I think women can be Cartier but I can be more open with women than men
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Re: Why are women difficult as friends?

Postby goldenbear » Wed Apr 06, 2016 12:45 am

Astrid wrote:Men can be pretty catty too. Just depends on the person, not the gender.

True the person is what makes the difference. ON the whole I'd say men are usually more simplistic in friendship and don't bother with frienimies or whatever that term is...

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Re: Why are women difficult as friends?

Postby GenericUsername8 » Sun Apr 10, 2016 9:36 pm

I'm my experience it's more about the person than the gender. Men can be manipulative bastards too. I guess "cattiness" is more common amongst young girls though. I have cut people out of my life before for being juvenile and manipulative and sometimes downright moronic. You just have to select your friends wisely and move on if they turn out to be nasty.

That being said as a man. I have more close female friends than I do male friends.
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Re: Why are women difficult as friends?

Postby Astrid » Mon Apr 11, 2016 12:25 am

GenericUsername8 wrote:I'm my experience it's more about the person than the gender. Men can be manipulative bastards too.


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Re: Why are women difficult as friends?

Postby Ade2016 » Fri Apr 22, 2016 7:28 pm

Much as I like having female friends (I'm a guy) I have sometimes found some like to play games which I don't enjoy or adhere to. And others I fancy and find it hard to just be friends so it's easier having male friends

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Re: Why are women difficult as friends?

Postby Anya.186 » Fri Sep 30, 2016 8:10 pm

Girls learn to be catty very early.
Mostly to other girls.
I have no idea why.
I don't think we even realize it.
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Re: Why are women difficult as friends?

Postby Meandmyself » Fri Dec 16, 2016 11:58 am

so difficult :shock: :wink: :lol:

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Re: Why are women difficult as friends?

Postby Anya.186 » Fri Dec 16, 2016 5:23 pm

Astrid wrote:
GenericUsername8 wrote:I'm my experience it's more about the person than the gender. Men can be manipulative bastards too.


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Agreed!
But if I'm going to have trouble it just seems to be from a girl.
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Re: Why are women difficult as friends?

Postby NoRainNoFlowers » Thu May 11, 2017 8:45 am

don't mean to offend anyone here, but in my experience (along with the experience of others that I've known, or are close to me), women tend to be very difficult to befriend and to maintain friendships with.


I completely agree with you... I used to think there was something wrong with me and that no one else was like me but now I realise I'm not alone :) x

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Re: Why are women difficult as friends?

Postby Anya.186 » Thu May 11, 2017 8:55 am

My very best friends are all other girls.
But my worst one on one experiences have been with other girls, dating back to kindergarten.

For some reason guys can get over stuff and move on easier than we I think.
But I also don't think guys develop the close bonds we do.

These days I'm trying to teach myself to accept people for who and as they are.
Unfortunately it is making me a bit more remote than when I was younger.
I'm not comfortable with it yet.

I guess the TV stuff is so unreal, but we want it to be true.
At least I did.
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Re: Why are women difficult as friends?

Postby Jean-Louise » Mon May 15, 2017 1:40 pm

Girls tend to take this way too personal.
We have to learn to let go.
But I am not sure if that is in our nature.
I try to let the bad things that others say and do stick with me very long.
But it has taken a long time to learn this.
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Re: Why are women difficult as friends?

Postby Anya.186 » Wed May 17, 2017 9:54 am

I guess we are all products of our environment.
Still, I see little reason to embrace gender neutrality very far except for legal reasons.
For the most part I'm happy with my pussy. :roll:
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Re: Why are women difficult as friends?

Postby Jean-Louise » Tue May 23, 2017 1:55 pm

Anya.186 wrote:I guess we are all products of our environment.
Still, I see little reason to embrace gender neutrality very far except for legal reasons.
For the most part I'm happy with my pussy. :roll:


A pussy is a good thing. Just ask any one of my girlfriends or boyfriends. :lol:


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