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Masturbation is sin?

Postby Dwi17 » Mon Sep 14, 2020 1:42 am

I am 17 years girl n from moeslim family..
My family hard keep me to do anyting..
But sometimes i feel horny n want to know about porn movies..
So i watching that.. And i can't to keep not masturbation
But i feel that is sin and keep secret from my parents..
Are i do right in there? And sometimes my finger little put in my vagina.. Are me still virgin? Thanks..

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Re: Masturbation is sin?

Postby heyup39 » Tue Sep 15, 2020 10:54 pm

Yes you're still a virgin.

All depends on YOUR beliefs not your parents. Grow up to be you, and what you wish to be. Take opinions. Take beliefs. Dont offend people but just make up your own mind on life.

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Re: Masturbation is sin?

Postby franfran » Wed Sep 16, 2020 11:47 am

You might break your hymen masturbating, but you won't lose your virginity doing it. And yes, it is a sin in a sense, but show me someone who says that they've never masturbated and I'll show you a liar.....
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Re: Masturbation is sin?

Postby Dwi17 » Wed Sep 16, 2020 3:00 pm

:mrgreen:
Yes you're still a virgin.

All depends on YOUR beliefs not your parents. Grow up to be you, and what you wish to be. Take opinions. Take beliefs. Dont offend people but just make up your own mind on life.
Yeah i think.. And in my age i think i enough mature to choose what i do..
I agree but need more advice i think.. Lol

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Re: Masturbation is sin?

Postby Dwi17 » Wed Sep 16, 2020 3:02 pm

You might break your hymen masturbating, but you won't lose your virginity doing it. And yes, it is a sin in a sense, but show me someone who says that they've never masturbated and I'll show you a liar.....
Many people in here said if hymen break u not a virgin. But with u said i think their wrong.. So i can more free do something while masturbate..
Thanks..

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Re: Masturbation is sin?

Postby franfran » Wed Sep 16, 2020 5:14 pm

You might break your hymen masturbating, but you won't lose your virginity doing it. And yes, it is a sin in a sense, but show me someone who says that they've never masturbated and I'll show you a liar.....
Many people in here said if hymen break u not a virgin. But with u said i think their wrong.. So i can more free do something while masturbate..
Thanks..
Some strict patriarchal societies will say that breaking your hymen is like losing your virginity, but it isn't really. You can only lose your virginity by engaging in sexual intercourse. You can break your hymen by, for example, doing gymnastics or taking part in other sporting activities, as well as having sex.
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Re: Masturbation is sin?

Postby Dwi17 » Wed Sep 16, 2020 5:47 pm

You might break your hymen masturbating, but you won't lose your virginity doing it. And yes, it is a sin in a sense, but show me someone who says that they've never masturbated and I'll show you a liar.....
Many people in here said if hymen break u not a virgin. But with u said i think their wrong.. So i can more free do something while masturbate..
Thanks..
Some strict patriarchal societies will say that breaking your hymen is like losing your virginity, but it isn't really. You can only lose your virginity by engaging in sexual intercourse. You can break your hymen by, for example, doing gymnastics or taking part in other sporting activities, as well as having sex.
Yeah i never think that.. U right hymen can broke because sport n etc so.. I think that is not mean lost virginity

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Re: Masturbation is sin?

Postby franfran » Thu Sep 17, 2020 12:55 am

Some strict patriarchal societies will say that breaking your hymen is like losing your virginity, but it isn't really.
If you do live in a country with those sort of attitudes though, you might want to think twice before inserting anything too far inside your vagina.....
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Re: Masturbation is sin?

Postby Dwi17 » Thu Sep 17, 2020 1:40 am

Some strict patriarchal societies will say that breaking your hymen is like losing your virginity, but it isn't really.
If you do live in a country with those sort of attitudes though, you might want to think twice before inserting anything too far inside your vagina.....
Yeah.. U right.. I just rubbing n insert little part of finger.. I scare thats is have impact in my continues life..

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Re: Masturbation is sin?

Postby suzzie76 » Thu Sep 17, 2020 1:36 pm

Little finger shouldn't break it, but not everyone is the same.

Cannot say I felt mine ever break or bleed, I think it was there, but never really studied it.

To be honest in this day and age if "breaking your hymen" is considered important by your husband, then I feel sorry for your future marriage.

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Re: Masturbation is sin?

Postby Dwi17 » Thu Sep 17, 2020 4:09 pm

Little finger shouldn't break it, but not everyone is the same.

Cannot say I felt mine ever break or bleed, I think it was there, but never really studied it.

To be honest in this day and age if "breaking your hymen" is considered important by your husband, then I feel sorry for your future marriage.
Thanks.. Yeah.. I never look my vagina bleed if i little insert my finger..
Yes that is important in here to marriage.. But i feel difficult to defend not masturbate... :(

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Re: Masturbation is sin?

Postby light1313 » Sat Sep 26, 2020 9:33 pm

extramarital sex is considered a sin in islam, masturbation is not a sin so long as you wash afterwards.

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Re: Masturbation is sin?

Postby Dwi17 » Wed Oct 21, 2020 5:34 pm

extramarital sex is considered a sin in islam, masturbation is not a sin so long as you wash afterwards.
Thanks yeah i think thats no poblem :)

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Re: Masturbation is sin?

Postby mostirreverent » Wed Nov 11, 2020 5:10 am

Yes, which is what makes it so much fun :lol:
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Re: Masturbation is sin?

Postby suzzie76 » Wed Nov 18, 2020 10:11 am

A few comments
- You can be guaranteed you that anyone telling you masturbation is a sin is a sinner. Its natural and its healthy, enjoy yourself and washing is a good thing no matter what you believe in. Even from a religious point of view there is nothing evil coming from masturbation.

- Extramarital sex is frowned upon in almost every culture, nothing to do with religion and looking beyond religous sides its about break of trust.

- Any man concerned about the status of your hymen is a man you should avoid.


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