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Couples Sex Toys

Postby Ilasav » Wed Nov 07, 2018 4:44 pm

I am so sorry if this is in the wrong place. I went back and forth on whether to put this in the "sex toys" section or here or there or elsewhere! I settled on here, as you can see...Please correct me if I'm wrong!

I recently started dating a guy who is slightly less developed and self-aware than I am in regards to his sexual tastes. Either that, or he's yet to confess his dirty little secrets to me Long story short, I have an extensive toy collection myself and would like to begin to introduce the idea of toys and "sexual aids" as our relationship becomes more intimate and physical. We have been dating for a month or so and he's a little on the shy side, though very passionate physically.

Can you suggest any non-intimidating couples toys that we could look into? I don't really know anything about toys for men or couples, so any help would be much appreciated!

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Re: Couples Sex Toys

Postby Starshine » Thu Nov 08, 2018 6:22 am

Hello and welcome to FF. I suspect you are over complicating things here and thinking things through too much.

It sounds as if you have a good one in training!

To be quite candid, most things designed for couples, in my view, tend to border on the ridiculous. It would probably be better just to introduce a vibey on to the scene. Do you have one (or more) already? Nobody will ever be able to “drive” it better than you. Some (but not all) men find them intimidating though, ther view it as a comment on their adequacy. Others enjoy the view.

You are getting on well, but only you can decide whether it is better to communicate first or just pull the toy out of the drawer.

Oh, and make sure the batteries are not flat. You can feel a bit let down when you produce it and nothing happens!

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Re: Couples Sex Toys

Postby Elysa » Thu Nov 08, 2018 12:39 pm

I agree with Starshine. I think you'll find they won't interest you once you start exploring him more. I'm sure he's more interesting that toys. These first new months should be about mind and flesh. Let him stimulate you, leave the toys for a quick come on coffee break.

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