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trying surrogacy

Postby isabellab » Fri Dec 08, 2017 7:54 am

Hi all! I am here to seek your opinion and suggestions. I have a tilted uterus condition and because of that, I cannot give birth on my own. My husband and I have decided to try surrogacy. We are confused in the clinics. Every clinic says it's the best, but we all know that is not generally true. Can you guys let us know of a clinic that you maybe yourself or someone you know had experience with? I'll really appreciate your replies. Thanks in advance!

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Re: trying surrogacy

Postby hesterida » Thu Dec 21, 2017 12:45 am

Hey dear. I can help you with that. I had my boy through surrogacy. We visited a lot of clinics. I can tell you from my experience that clinics in Ukraine are the best. All of their clinics are way better than clinics in any other country. So, for your satisfaction, you can choose any of the clinics in Ukraine. Good luck with everything.

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Re: trying surrogacy

Postby kamila » Thu Dec 21, 2017 12:50 am

HI?The same thing happened to me. My breasts started getting sore the week after I ovulated and when I didn't start my period the following week I took a test and it was BFP. According to my LMP, I am 5 weeks and 4 days and just since yesterday, my breasts have gotten even sorer than they have been.

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Re: trying surrogacy

Postby peyton250 » Thu Dec 21, 2017 5:24 am

You spoke my heart out dear. It’s true when I was looking for options, every Clinic exclaimed that they are the best. After a lot of research and listening to others experience I decided upon biotexcom in Ukraine Kiev. Upon my first consultation via email, I had a feeling that this is the Clinic where I shall get my treatment done. My visit to the clinic was very pleasant. The environment was very friendly and professional. They provide you with accommodation and transportation. Plus they provide you with multiple attempts without any extra cost. Do get in touch for further details.

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Re: trying surrogacy

Postby Arina259 » Sun Jan 07, 2018 11:30 am

Hi there, dear. Sorry to hear that. I am afraid I don't know much about the condition you mentioned. However, it seems that the probem would be in carrying and delivering the baby. Not in ovulation. In that case, surrogacy might be a good idea for you. You could look into that. I know of a clinic that I could refer you to. Let me know if you are interested. The child will be yours genetically. The only difference would be that you won't be carrying. So, your uterus' orientation won't matter. I hope you find this helpful. Do reach out for more info. Good luck!

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Re: trying surrogacy

Postby elizabethpia » Mon Jan 08, 2018 6:50 pm

Hi Dear! I have read and realized your entire story. It really been a pleasure to know you and endorse your decision. Well, I've friends who have been through the procedure. Well, I can't give you specifics. But, I really have heard some good response regarding clinics in Ukraine. Even here _ and from people, You can search clinics in Kiev, Ukraine. Secondly, you can also read reviews regarding them. Because, Ukraine is part of Europe, they all have really good and flexible laws. Even they have affordability as compared to the USA. I think you should try them. Still, one more thing you can ask them for their success rate per year of birth. It will also help you in deciding what's best for you. Besides that my best wishes are with you.

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Re: trying surrogacy

Postby JessicaVibes91 » Sun Jan 21, 2018 9:58 pm

Hello, beautiful ladies three years ago my husband and I used surrogacy service. After half a decade of trying to become pregnant, sometimes succeeding but always failing to carry a baby successfully to term, I came to the conclusion that if we wanted to have a child who was genetically related to us, we would have to find a woman thought surrogacy service who could deliver our baby. That was September 2014. I was 37 years old. Exhausted by years of infertility and emotionally draining by miscarriage, my husband and I decided to use surrogacy. But there was exist one problem- money. The surrogacy really expensive in our country. We started to search a place where the surrogacy is legal at an affordable price. Finally, we found one which attracted us. It was a reproductive center. On March we were in the clinic. And by the beginning of the August, our surrogacy mother got pregnant with our child. And on May I was holding my 3-week-old son in my arms.It's a great pleasure I can't explain in words.lots of love and happiness.

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Re: trying surrogacy

Postby pheobe412 » Mon Jan 22, 2018 9:34 pm

Well Every clinic is true dear. This is a really good method to become parents without any tension. The only problem is that this is not cheap. This is very expensive to take this method. This is I think the only problem with it. Otherwise this is great. I must tell you dear. If you have plenty of resources than go ahead do it. Otherwise don't do it.

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Re: trying surrogacy

Postby jenifercox » Fri Jan 26, 2018 12:07 am

Well best of luck my friend. Surrogacy is really great option for you. You should try that. I think it could work for you. The sad days are now at their end friend. Don't worry just be happy.

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Re: trying surrogacy

Postby camassA » Tue Feb 06, 2018 12:47 pm

Hi. I am through surrogacy process now. I'd recommend you to make such decision on your own. I mean try to get lots of information about different options and then just trust your guts. Sometimes it happens that you trust someone's opinion and then you are disappointed. Surrogacy it's a great emotional rollercoaster and you can't be in control of everything. All you can do is trust, hope and pray. Good luck!

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Re: trying surrogacy

Postby cloe345 » Fri Feb 09, 2018 6:39 am

Hi there, I hope you are doing well. I am also in the same boat as you are. I and my partner have been TTC for many years but no luck. I also have a heart disease due to which I am unable to give birth naturally. I am also looking for surrogacy options. I am also following your post to get some direction. I am very confused just like you. I hope I will be able to decide some good clinic through peoples suggestions.

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Re: trying surrogacy

Postby underwateroversky » Wed Apr 25, 2018 11:43 am

Hi hun! I hope you are fine. Your relatives support you and everything's alright. And finding a clinic is just a matter of short time.
I understand how you wanted to find shortcuts. Are you really sure it’s possible on the forum chat?
Exactly I’m sure that’s a relevant room to improve your knowledge about fertility tourism as such.
However, the process of choosing the clinic needs more serious approach.
Lots of words were dedicated to Ukraine. I don’t have anything against to advise the same.
Ukraine now offers a real diversity in options.
My following advice is to start considering exactly this direction. Ukraine makes clients glad lately.
Don’t insist on choosing specific hospital. That’s up to your preferences. However, Ukraine is interesting place to try. it will save your money in any case.
Another advice. If your chose this destination you’d better stay in Kiev. It’s the most modern and comfortable city for foreigners.

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Re: trying surrogacy

Postby kawai » Tue Jun 12, 2018 2:36 pm

Hello to everyone! I’m rather new to this topic. This thread is much interesting for me now.
I’m 50 years old. I’m planning to have surrogacy. No one knows maybe I would be able to carry our baby.
I have got two children. Both of them I delivered naturally. My fertility was always fine.
However, it too late. The pause od 17 years between children is too much. I don’t want to take that risk.
I can lose a baby. It can harm my body. I don’t want to get into depression now.
My previous husband died. It happened 9 years ago. He is a father of my children.
I know he’ll never accept surrogacy. He differed from my second husband. Two years ago I met my love.
We’re really happy. He’s younger. It’s all right that he wants having his own babies.
My children are already adult. My son is living with his wife separately. My daughter will certainly find her husband.
I’m afraid my house will become empty. I’m afraid of sound of emptiness. It’s my fear.
How is it to be all alone? Children live separately. You husband works all day.
I don’t want to be alone at the huge building. We’re seeking the way out. Surrogacy is it.
He agrees it’s quite dangerous to get pregnant at 50. He’s younger than me. It doesn’t embarrass me at all.
He loves me no doubts. I also love him. I’m going to be with him forever.
It’s strange how such different people can love each other. How it’s possible for them to get along. I feel much younger with him.
But not young enough for getting pregnant! If it’ll be possible I’d like to use my own egg. I know it can be a problem.
I still have periods. so? You mention different names of clinics.
It’s quite new information for me. I know only that there’re good specialists and prices in Ukraine. It can be compared to the US.
Options are really different. A woman like me can easily get confused. Thanks such forums we can learn this.
It’s so cool people share their experience. You discuss it all the time. You give advice.
I find it remarkable. It’s real salvation for such newcomers as I am. I couldn’t learn more advisable information wherever.
I was advised to come here. On another forum one kind woman said I would find more about Ukraine here. It was so nice from her.
I hope you’re doing fine. Everything is going to be all right. Thank you for your frankness.

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Re: trying surrogacy

Postby amandabrook » Mon Jul 30, 2018 1:26 pm

Hi Dear! I’m feeling sorry for your loss. It’s always a tough problem to be infertile. Life will never be the same any more.
I myself know it. I’m infertile. I suffer from it and struggled with such injustice for long.
Now I can take breath. I’m already a mother of wonderful twins. I have it because I took part in surrogacy journey.
It’s quite a serious and exhausting process. Everyone should be prepared in advance. Not only emotionally but we have to prepare everything for our future children.
I had got journey to Kiev. It was really exciting experience. I decided to have surrogacy because all the other methods didn’t work out.
In my case it was a step helping me to save time and health. I actually wanted to be as young as it might be. I wanted to understand my children well.
Maybe I’m mistaken. Nothing can be helpful in dealing with your teenagers. However, while they are still babies I’m glad of my decision.
Ukraine is a right choice. Don’t have doubt. They are quite experienced and professional to make you succeed.
You know how many of us return home with babies from Ukraine annually. It’s an indication of success. Find a clinic you could trust.
My main idea isn’t that to direct you to the particular hospital. It’s better if you find it by yourself. You’ll know it’s your discovery.
I can only say there are many wonderful clinics in Kiev. 5 of they are really cool. They know how to deal with even most hopeless cases.
Take your time making a choice. Listen only to those who were there. avoid scams. they can be found in your way.
Such people are always there, where other people intend to obtain happiness. It’s a weird formula. However, it works this way.
Don’t want to be too chatty. It’s not new I can be annoying. Take care of yourself.
Remember about safety, first of all. Hold on dear! I wish you good luck!

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Re: trying surrogacy

Postby chirpyaubrey » Thu Oct 11, 2018 6:32 am

Hi dear hope you and husband is doing good. It feels good to hear that you have selected the option of surrogacy. Health issue is not by choice but by fate. It is a trending problem of surrogacy clinic problems now. You can't even understand which clinic to choose. You need to do a lot of research work. Don't get carried by their word of mouth. Many clinic play with the emotions and feeling. They may fake you promises just for the sake of money.

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