Male strippers and hen-night - what do you ladies g

[Tommo]

Hi,

I'm a 25 year old lad with a genuine concern! My girlfriend and I have only been going out for a few weeks and we're still finding out stuff about each other.

She's going on a mate's hen-night next week and there's gonna be a male stripper. She's told me that her and her mates have been to seen strippers before and they'd ended up doing more than just watching and that she hoped I wouldn't be upset if it happened again. When I said that maybe I would be, she said its just a laugh for her and her mates and a chance to play with a big willy for a few moments.

I'm a bit gutted to be honest. Does this really happen?

[Stacy31]

Well what do guys get up to at strip clubs and on lads nights out?
From my experience of male strippers they sometimes put whipped cream on their C*** and get one of the girls to lick/suck it off. You can dance with them and obviously they are naked so you will rub on their C*** etc.

[Verve]

It's a lot of fun. All the acrobatic things your man can't do you can have done starting at a $1. There will be contact but there shouldn't be any insertion. Contact will happen but if she loves you she'll know that there is a limit. Also some strippers bring their women to the shows. In the states I've seen it, their managers. Just trust her.

[THAT_GUEST]

Hi,

I'm a 25 year old lad with a genuine concern! My girlfriend and I have only been going out for a few weeks and we're still finding out stuff about each other.

She's going on a mate's hen-night next week and there's gonna be a male stripper. She's told me that her and her mates have been to seen strippers before and they'd ended up doing more than just watching and that she hoped I wouldn't be upset if it happened again. When I said that maybe I would be, she said its just a laugh for her and her mates and a chance to play with a big willy for a few moments.

I'm a bit gutted to be honest. Does this really happen?

Dude, when the cat's away, the rat will play! Think about it, she is surrounded by her best friends, in a consequence free environment. Usually guys go to a strip club and have some goon standing around not letting them touch, we certainly can't lick the strippers pussy or suck her tits. But low and behold, it's all good clean fun for the girls to suck the C*** of some stranger! I am entirely against the whole stripper thing, male or female!

[Amnesia]

Well what do guys get up to at strip clubs and on lads nights out?
From my experience of male strippers they sometimes put whipped cream on their C*** and get one of the girls to lick/suck it off. You can dance with them and obviously they are naked so you will rub on their C*** etc.

I will never be that desperate to make a dollar. I'd just as well rather sell drugs.

[Verve]

I will never be that desperate to make a dollar. I'd just as well rather sell drugs.

[guesstheguest]

Does the saying not go.....

'What happens on stag/hen night, stays on the stag/hen night!'

[Jenny29]

I was at one the other week, its true, your there with some of your friends, perhaps drunk or near to it, there is a stripper with a long musclular tool bouncing in front of you.......well you do the maths.

Generally its a lick or a quick suck

[Tommo]

Its the size thing that gets me though. My girlfriend has said that size doesn't matter when we have sex, but then said that playing with these strippers is good fun cos they're so big. She's told me that usually they're as bigger soft as I am hard! God, talk about giving a guy a complex!

Thanks for all your input.

[OffDutyNurse]

Is your girlfriend purposley trying to give you a complex?

[Tommo]

She doesn't see it like that! And I'm quite happy with what I've got. But it is a bit of a cheek I think.

Btw - I'm gonna ask her if there's any 'insertion'. I can handle groping I think, but not the thought of her doing anything further just cos its a chance to suck something bigger than mine

[Suzanne 36]

Ive been to quite a few male strippers nights in England, there a great night out for the girls.
Ive never ever seen "insertion" as you put it, but i have seen strippers have there dicks sucked & even being wanked off till they cum & yea all the strippers ive seen have had huge dicks.

[rogerramjet]

We need some pictures...

[Guest]

Have a look at Hunkystrippers.com

[newkatie]

Its mostly just W**nking and a bit of sucking.
Only seen one girl actually F*** a stripper behind a flag that two of her mates were holding a flag up.
Know a few girls who have met strippers later however

[Suzanne 36]

Yea, ive seen girls suck strippers cocks & wank the strippers off till they cum, but ive never seen a stripper actually shag a girl on stage.

[newkatie]

The girl I saw who did shag on stage was a right knacker.

[Guest]

You must of felt right at home.

[MadForItSuzy!]

I was at one the other week, its true, your there with some of your friends, perhaps drunk or near to it, there is a stripper with a long musclular tool bouncing in front of you.......well you do the maths.

Generally its a lick or a quick suck

Hi Jenny29!
But tell me,did you?
And you'd have to hold it first, maybe. Did you?

[julieJulie]

Yea, ive seen girls suck strippers cocks & wank the strippers off till they cum, but ive never seen a stripper actually shag a girl on stage.

The same here. It gets pretty hot, but not that hot! Sometimes we also take our tops off, or pop a boob out! Its great to let it all hang out, as it were!
And most of the time we're dancing and drinking and laughing ourselves silly!

So Tommo, next time we have a party perhaps you'd like to come too!

[IamWhiteDragon]

I was the lucky girl at the end of the line at my friends henparty. When I got to him, he was sooo worked up that he came on my face, BUT I did kind of want it sooo it worked out great

I also got his number after and we shagged a few times a couple of weeks later, but we don't talk anymore! BUUUUT Im not a lady, dont get wrong impressions of me.

[THAT_GUEST]

I'm glad I am with a good girl. If I was in the market right now, I wouldn't trust a single girl for the life of me.

This is yet another sign of the decay of decent society.

[Jen29]

I was at one the other week, its true, your there with some of your friends, perhaps drunk or near to it, there is a stripper with a long musclular tool bouncing in front of you.......well you do the maths.

Generally its a lick or a quick suck

Hi Jenny29!
But tell me,did you?
And you'd have to hold it first, maybe. Did you?

Yes, the guy had a handy towel thingy which after postioning himself in front of you he put the towel over your head, so to give him a brief bit of head was quick and easy without anyone really knowing if you really have done it!
Well I did give his apple sized helmet a good suck

[tommo]

Wow there are so many threads on this subject - and internet sites that I've found! Us guys find it a turn on I spose, we like the idea of girls not being able to control themsleves and being a bit rampant. I still don't totally get it though. All this talk about "a quick suck" or "a cheeky grope". I've been to see female strippers, and (not that its allowed) would never think of inserting a "cheeky" finger or giving her clit a quick rub. And if i did do those things and had a girlfriend at the time I know I'd feel well guilty - it definitely wouldn't just be harmless fun in my mind. The C*** size thing is major factor - why are we all so F****** obsessed with it, its so boring!! But would any girls want a cheeky stroke or suck of a stripper with a small dick, methinks not. My girlfriend said exactly the same. She went on her hen night and admitted W**nking this guy for a few seconds cos, as she put it, "it was so huge!". Im pretty cool with it, whatever you know, if it didnt mean anything, it didnt mean anything. But I still don't get it!

By the way, to the poster who invited me along to one of these parties - thanks, but no thanks! However I'll come and strip for you and your mates and so you could all have a cheeky feel of my C***, that'd teach her!

[julieJulie]

Wow there are so many threads on this subject ... I still don't totally get it though. All this talk about "a quick suck" or "a cheeky grope".... My girlfriend went on her hen night and admitted W**nking this guy for a few seconds cos, as she put it, "it was so huge!". Im pretty cool with it, whatever you know, if it didnt mean anything, it didnt mean anything. But I still don't get it!

By the way, to the poster who invited me along to one of these parties - thanks, but no thanks! However I'll come and strip for you and your mates and so you could all have a cheeky feel of my C***, that'd teach her!

Hi Tommo!
Yes, that's what I meant! Come to our next party and strip for us!
But you'll have to be good! Actually, the entertainment value and atmosphere is vital to a fun evening. We like it slow and smootchy, with some beaty music in between. We like a slow hand and a smooth touch. It takes ages for us to get aroused, if at all! So, in contrast with you guys how can get up, and finishing, in 60 seconds, we don't have that sexual imperative, well certainly not as strong as you of the male persuasion seem to!

We are happy without needing to reach *rg*sm every time!

That's why it is so funny, while we are eating our chips, to see a guy strutting his stuff and bumping and grinding! We just don't get it either!
Its so comic! And if we get a touch, it feels so weird, especially as we most likely not even aroused!

But you get a couple of guys with a few beers, and no girl is safe! Perhaps that's why the customary behaviour when men go to see strippers is hedged about with inhibition and guilt, just a a social control of a potential dangerous situation.

But with us it's different, for obvious reasons. Perhaps girls are different from guys!

Yes we get a warm glow, ...

Anyway...about this next party, when can you....

Love, julieJulie
x

[Tommo]

julieJulie, - I'd love to, where do you live?!?

[Drum'n'boi]

whoa there ...

Just who says that a) Girls who go to strip shows wanna cop a feel? and b) that all male strippers put up with that kind of behaviour (i am one - so I should know!)

Like I say, I'm a stripper - and hey guess what I don't have a big d***! However, I am told that my shows are always the most popular even though I don't encourage the girls to touch me up. Now, I don't have the brains of an arch bishop but this tells me something ... mainly that girls don't all misbehave at male strip shows and that not all strippers encourage it in any case.

Love

Peewee

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You can't always get what you want ... but I can; you can share!

[julieJulie]

To Tomma:..Anyway...about this next party, when can you....

Love, julieJulie
x

julieJulie, - I'd love to, where do you live?!?

Sorry Tommo! I must apologise for leading you on. It just ain't gonna happen! I live miles away from you, you've got a gf, and I don't know you!
But I know where I stand with these hen-night stripper guys. They are real gentlemen and professionals who know how far to go and when to stop. They can read our minds, I'm sure!
Anyway, its not about getting frisky with a hunk, it more about the whole thing of a good night out with entertainment, singing, dancing, games (rude and otherwise!), acrobatics, tricks, teasing and cheeky fun.

As I don't know you, I really can't take the risk! Sorry! I hope you understand.
Love, julieJulie
x

[Tommo]

Julie, don't worry I wasn't too serious. Thanks for your help on this though. xx

[brummy]

Well, I'm a nude art model who's some CFNM parties for a bit of fun, but it's not gone beyond some good groping and a wank without being taken all the way.
May be I should start to branch out a bit?

[dr_foster]

I think it depends on the stripper and on the girls...as a male I've never been taken with female strippers or lap dancers, the whole thing feels a bit seedy to me, and I know I'm not alone in that.

I've never seen anything much more than the girl stripping.

If she does get up to something then that probably tells you a lot about her, so you can make the decision whether you want to carry the relationship on.

[julieJulie]

Well, I'm a nude art model who's done some CFNM parties for a bit of fun, but it's not gone beyond some good groping and a wank without being taken all the way.
May be I should start to branch out a bit?

No Brummy. Stick with them touching and w*nking you. (It gets complicated and dangerous otherwise!)

Make sure you are fit, fun and respectful. Have a dj or good music, make sure its a warm venue, and maybe plan different 'acts' and have alternatives ready if the girls aren't taking to the one you are doing. Get some audience interaction, but not all the time! We like being teased!
Be prepared! Give us some fun and we'll give you some fun!

Love from julieJulie
xxx

[TheMainDude]

I'm all for ladies enjoying a night with some big boys! If my g/f wanted to go to a ladies' night, I'd love it. The thought of here playing with a big c**k in front of her friends and then teasing me about it later...makes me so damn horny!

[Ruth5]

Male stripper nights are brilliant fun

[s.onslow]

How do you find out where there are ladies nights. Ive been looking everywhere for a friends birthday surprise and i want to take her to a ladies night out. So far i can't find any.
If anyone knows of any good ones please let me know.
Thanx

[Dormant]

If my girlfriend were going to watch some male strippers with ther friends I would expect her to behave under the same rules as I would have to follow. You can look but you cant touch.

If you are single then I dont give a damn if you take on everyone there, but a relationship is another matter.

[glitter_kelly]

Hiya,
I used to work in Wetherspoons (the pub) before going to Uni, and for our xmas party we went to a gay bar. I'm not gay (i'm a straight girl) but a couple of the managers who organised it were (lol).
Anyway, there was a male stripper there and I was watching him (this was well before my relationship with my current partner) and he was getting girls and guys involved, touching him etc.

I hated it. At one point i could see him coming towards me and I made a run for it. It would have been my worst nightmare!!

Thats the only experience I have, and I'm never going to see one again, and I have warned all my friends, when I get married I definatly don't want a stripper. I'd hate it.

Kelly xxx

[Ruth5]

But male strippers at a organised Ladies Night, specifically for females & not gays are completely & utterly differant.

[sammy b]

my new partner used to be a male stripper and he told me that he would wank himself off before the show so he didnt get to excited. He claims that usually only the loudest/drunkest women would ever have a grope and that if an audience looked to wild, he would only take his jockstrap off in the last few minutes of the show.
He packed it in in the mid nineties- though things do seem a bit wilder now!

[Ruth5]

They certainly are !!! thank goodness