Does he recognize that I’m a virgin?

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Does he recognize that I’m a virgin?

Postby adelaa » Tue Jan 09, 2018 10:40 pm

Hello everyone,
I’ve been seeing a boy for some time already and a few weeks ago, he did it to me with his fingers, he started to put them inside the hole but I’m a virgin. I told him to stop and move his fingers to my clitoris because it hurted down there. If I wasn’t a virgin, it wouldn’t hurt right? So did he recognize I’m a virgin because of this situation?
Sorry for my bad english, not a native speaker.
Thanks for your advices!

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Re: Does he recognize that I’m a virgin?

Postby Starshine » Thu Jan 11, 2018 7:04 am

If you are tense and/or a little dry, or if he is not gentle it’s going to hurt regardless.

You would be better discovering your own body more.

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Re: Does he recognize that I’m a virgin?

Postby Jean-Louise » Thu Jan 11, 2018 2:34 pm

adelaa wrote:Hello everyone,
I’ve been seeing a boy for some time already and a few weeks ago, he did it to me with his fingers, he started to put them inside the hole but I’m a virgin. I told him to stop and move his fingers to my clitoris because it hurted down there. If I wasn’t a virgin, it wouldn’t hurt right? So did he recognize I’m a virgin because of this situation?
Sorry for my bad english, not a native speaker.
Thanks for your advices!


Many guys just are not well versed in female anatomy and how the different parts work.
Talk to him and try to explain how this feel.
If he is a kind and understanding, and wanting to please you, he will listen and take it slowly.

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Re: Does he recognize that I’m a virgin?

Postby Elysa » Fri Jan 12, 2018 7:51 am

She knows the word clitoris but that other thing is a "hole".

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Re: Does he recognize that I’m a virgin?

Postby Starshine » Mon Jan 15, 2018 7:50 am

Elysa wrote:She knows the word clitoris but that other thing is a "hole".


Quite possible. Clitoris derives from the Greek and is the same word in many different languages.

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Re: Does he recognize that I’m a virgin?

Postby Jean-Louise » Fri Feb 02, 2018 3:17 pm

adelaa wrote:Hello everyone,
I’ve been seeing a boy for some time already and a few weeks ago, he did it to me with his fingers, he started to put them inside the hole but I’m a virgin. I told him to stop and move his fingers to my clitoris because it hurted down there. If I wasn’t a virgin, it wouldn’t hurt right? So did he recognize I’m a virgin because of this situation?
Sorry for my bad english, not a native speaker.
Thanks for your advices!


He does not understand anatomy and you are language challenged. Tough to communicate.

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Re: Does he recognize that I’m a virgin?

Postby Nameless » Sun Apr 15, 2018 2:55 am

adelaa wrote:Hello everyone,
I’ve been seeing a boy for some time already and a few weeks ago, he did it to me with his fingers, he started to put them inside the hole but I’m a virgin. I told him to stop and move his fingers to my clitoris because it hurted down there. If I wasn’t a virgin, it wouldn’t hurt right? So did he recognize I’m a virgin because of this situation?
Sorry for my bad english, not a native speaker.
Thanks for your advices!

It's impossible to guess with any certainty.

If you're eager to find out, I suggest you refer to this and ask him if he realised you're a virgin. OK, it might be a little difficult to talk about something so intimate, so maybe at the same time you could ask him if he's a virgin - then you'll have equal knowledge of each other! There is, of course, absolutely nothing wrong or embarrassing about being a virgin!

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Re: Does he recognize that I’m a virgin?

Postby Starshine » Sun Apr 15, 2018 5:50 am

“Virginity” is a male created status for controlling women.

It is nothing to be either ashamed of or proud of.

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Re: Does he recognize that I’m a virgin?

Postby franfran » Sun Apr 15, 2018 2:12 pm

Joined 10 January and only one post :think:
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Re: Does he recognize that I’m a virgin?

Postby BeckyTheBest » Sun Apr 15, 2018 3:07 pm

Says 9 January here ... so I guess it tells us the join date according to OUR time zone, not theirs!

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Re: Does he recognize that I’m a virgin?

Postby franfran » Sun Apr 15, 2018 10:17 pm

BeckyTheBest wrote:Says 9 January here ... so I guess it tells us the join date according to OUR time zone, not theirs!


It varies according to the time you specify in your profile settings. Where I am we're around 11 hours ahead (it varies according to whether or not it is Daylight Saving). The time on the forum on my display at the moment is 7.17am 16 April.
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