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Re: Thoughts on Men wearing panties

Postby Guest » Fri Oct 05, 2018 7:35 am

Me again, I'm just getting dressed and I wondered if you only wear panties or if you're tempted by bras as well? Also if you regularly get to see what underwear your GF wears, and if she has any childish cartoon/Disney underwear?

A girl was bullying me about my flat chest and children's underwear yesterday when I went with my friend to finally get her fitted. Just wanna know if I am a freak or if she was just being a complete Bleet, could be both I suppose. My friend got me away before I started crying but it really got to me.

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Re: Thoughts on Men wearing panties

Postby Homefree13 » Fri Oct 05, 2018 2:22 pm

I appreciate your honesty. You were right. She gave me an ultimatum: her or the porn. I said I needed time. So she is at her mother's for the moment while I try and work this out. I realize my comment was wrong. That is not the general way of thinking nor should it be. It's just I know I have a sickness. It's been going on for sometime. Ever since I was a teenager. But I don't know if I truly want to quit. That may sound screwed up but it's a source of comfort for me. It's really a tough thing.

As far as bras, yes, I wear them as well. I love the tight feeling on my chest. It's like being embraced all day. I just have to make sure the lines don't show. Quite embarrassing for a guy. Do you know any guys that wear them as well?

Homefree13

Re: Thoughts on Men wearing panties

Postby Homefree13 » Fri Oct 05, 2018 2:27 pm

You're not a freak at all. You're brave for being you. Don't let anyone get to you. They only lash out because of their own insecurities. So it says more about them than you. Don't let them take you down to their level.

Homefree13

Re: Thoughts on Men wearing panties

Postby Homefree13 » Fri Oct 05, 2018 2:34 pm

Also, do you find that women generally care or not what underwear men wear?

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Re: Thoughts on Men wearing panties

Postby Homefree13 » Fri Oct 05, 2018 2:48 pm

Would your friends be turned on or off by a guy wearing panties?

She doesn't have princess ones. But she wear superhero ones such as Superman, Wonder Woman, Black Widow and so on. We have that in common!

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Re: Thoughts on Men wearing panties

Postby Guest » Fri Oct 05, 2018 3:42 pm

She clearly cares for you, and her family sounds supportive, so why do you go and talk to her and her mum, and tell them this. Her mum will probably help you both keep a cool head and stop it turning into a fight and give some experience and wisdom. The trouble with addictions is you won't want to stop, even when your life is crumbling around you. They can help you, the only real question is do you care for her?

Fair enough, no it was just a thought that I had when I was getting dressed this morning. Do you prefer any particular style or is it just whatever?

Thankyou, I needed to hear that. She was arrested for being drunk and disorderly, the staff were really professional but other women shoppers were giggling, it was horrible. I worked from home today and not been out coz I don't want to see people. I also had to cover over all the mirrors in the flat. My friends coming over later coz she's worried and says she's got a few surprises, but I really don't want to see anyone.

Umm generally I don't think they do, only know one other girl who would be as interested as me, that's Liz from the locker room story. I find underwear fascinating, think it says an awful lot about someone's personality.

Most of my friends are guys so probably not lol! They do like panties though... my girlfriends would be a mix of excitement or wouldn't be bothered, can't see it being a deal breaker. The bras they would find odd though.

OK, that's kl, I'm in Spiderman myself today. Well was, I decided to change back into a nappy as I'm staying in and need abit of comfort. Tomorrow will be though. Currently curled up under a blanket with a cuddly toy watching TV in a oversized T-shirt.

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Re: Thoughts on Men wearing panties

Postby Homefree13 » Fri Oct 05, 2018 4:26 pm

Thank you for the advice. I want to change and I do care about her. She is very understanding. I will talk with them.

As far as styles, anything flat. I don't want it too noticable.

I get that way sometimes as well. Not wanting to see anyone. And sometimes you do need time for yourself. Just don't let it keep you down. What others say can't hurt you unless you let it. Keep being you and forging ahead!

Homefree13

Re: Thoughts on Men wearing panties

Postby Homefree13 » Fri Oct 05, 2018 4:32 pm

Also, I don't wear bras every day. Just from time to time. It's not as big a thing as wearing panties. That is much more thrilling! Your guy friends are interested in them for wearing or just seeing them on other girls?

Homefree13

Re: Thoughts on Men wearing panties

Postby Homefree13 » Fri Oct 05, 2018 4:42 pm

Have any of your girlfriends ever told you about any guys they were with, what kind of underwear they wore?

I've only known this one other woman. Her husband wears thong underwear for men. She says she finds it really hot.

I agree with you. A person's underwear says a lot about who they are. I find it exciting to think about. It's like seeing who the person really is, not the covering that they want society to think they are.

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Re: Thoughts on Men wearing panties

Postby Guest » Fri Oct 05, 2018 5:18 pm

Hehe, fair enough, funny though that you wear bras and I don't :p Just seeing them on other girls I'm afraid.

It's the third thing they spill after name and if they were shaven, not many guys are. Mostly it's boxers or trunks, occasionally it's briefs, rarely it's a guy thong or jock strap.

The ones with long standing boyfriends, once when we went to the beach made everyone wear the same speedos, I'd admitted to them I was bi a week before and they decided they wanted to mess with me. Now I talk underwear with them and spill what the girls are wearing if I'm feeling mischievous.

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Re: Thoughts on Men wearing panties

Postby Homefree13 » Sun Oct 07, 2018 4:42 pm

Do they express any other thoughts when its briefs or a guy thong? Are they disappointed or intrigued?

On the positive side, I've been several days now without porn. Talked with my girlfriend and her mother. They do understand. And are willing to help. And I am going to accept it. I know it will take work every day, but I am ready. Thsnk you again for all of your help. And please don't take anything I said upset you. I was in a very dark place. I realize that now. It was not what who I truly am. I was lashing out. I felt judged. But that's what happens with an addict. Because deep down I knew I was hurting her. And I couldn't stop. Even though I knew I should. So thank you and I ask for your continued support. It means a lot. All the best for you as well. I truly hope you are in a better place now. A more positive place. Take care!

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Re: Thoughts on Men wearing panties

Postby Guest » Sun Oct 07, 2018 7:54 pm

They're definitely intrigued! Think briefs are the least favourite, they said guy thongs give them something grab ;) I love briefs, they shape a guy amazingly and i think I'd literally explode if I ever found a guy wearing the same briefs as me!!

Aww well done that's amazing, actually made my day! That couldn't have been easy so really well done. Excellent really pleased! No need to thank me :)

No it's OK, I do completely understand so don't worry, it wasn't you at all. I just wanted to stop you body shaming anyone coz it can be soo destructive.

Yeah a much more positive place thanks, my friend gave me a surprise that eve, her and her bf came round, she was in a bra that properly fit and we had a film and pizza night. Her bf thanked me coz she seemed happier and more confident. She'd also arranged for a beach trip with Trix and some of the guys, to get me out with friends. There's a story about that in the public peeing thread on the health forum. I'll write another part later.

Homefree13

Re: Thoughts on Men wearing panties

Postby Homefree13 » Mon Oct 08, 2018 1:19 am

I'm glad you're doing better! You deserve the best! As for me, I feel much better as well. It is in part thanks to you. You helped me wake up from that mess. So please accept some credit.

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Re: Thoughts on Men wearing panties

Postby Guest » Mon Oct 08, 2018 6:55 pm

Yeah I was snapped out of it by friends. Aww thankyou but I really don't, I'm nothing special, just want a quiet peaceful life. That's really really good, I'm glad I could help, how are things with your GF?

You still enjoying panties or you stopped to try and sort your head straight? In a particularly girly mood today, been in grey boyshorts with pink hearts and a matching crop top, had a bubble bath now curled up with a cuddly toy going to watch parent trap and have some ice-cream. Been years since I've had a night like this!

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Re: Thoughts on Men wearing panties

Postby chirpyaubrey » Tue Oct 09, 2018 7:50 am

Hi dear. Good to see your girlfriends concern towards you. You need to wear them on a regular basis. There is no harm in wearing underwear. This actually acts as a safeguard for you internal body parts. Wear cotton underwear to get rid of irritation, and make yourself comfortable.

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Re: Thoughts on Men wearing panties

Postby Guest » Tue Oct 09, 2018 3:43 pm

Hiya :) just to be clear I wasn't suggesting he doesn't wear any underwear or it causes harm I think everyone should always have something on, apart from washing or the toilet, obviously. Just wondered if he's gone with boxers/briefs for the time being as there's alot going on in his mind and wearing panties (hate that word) might just be adding one more thing to the mix.

I am wondering why and how underwear acts as a safeguard to internal body parts?

Homefree13

Re: Thoughts on Men wearing panties

Postby Homefree13 » Mon Oct 15, 2018 5:13 am

Hey!
Thank you for asking. Things are great! My gf is back living with me. I haven't watched that stuff in nearly two weeks! I feel a lot better! I told her I also got support from this board and she is just happy that I'm doing better. I have switched back to boxers. I think I needed to in order to help recover. Get back in a healthy state of mind!

It's great that you are doing so well, too! Keep on going ahead and doing things that keep you in a healthy state as well! Take care!

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Re: Thoughts on Men wearing panties

Postby Guest » Mon Oct 15, 2018 7:47 am

Hiya!!

That is amazing! Aww really really pleased, great start to the week :) really well done, proud of you! Well you're welcome and I'm glad I could help, you should try getting her on here. Yeah I thought that might be the case.

I've actually got a boyfriend as of this weekend! He's the one who showed me this site. He was castrated back in May/June so we're definitely an odd couple but we've been friends for years, I went to visit him last week. We both realised we have an enormous amount of affection for each other, being around one another feels effortless and we're always pleased when the others around. It just sort of all spilled out after a party where some of his friends of a friend were bullying us, and we were chatting in A&E.

Homefree13

Re: Thoughts on Men wearing panties

Postby Homefree13 » Mon Oct 15, 2018 3:03 pm

Thank you! I am proud and very happy for you! You deserve the best!

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Re: Thoughts on Men wearing panties

Postby Guest » Mon Oct 15, 2018 6:29 pm

Thank you! Aww you too :) our mums burst into tears when we told them. Obviously there's no chance of being married properly and kids are off the table. But we have such great fun together, and we're surprisingly similar from the neck down.

Had a very telling undies flash whilst I was with him last week which I don't think I'll ever hear the end of. I found out though that occasionally he's been wearing panties since his op, which did excite me.

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Re: Thoughts on Men wearing panties

Postby Guest » Sun Oct 21, 2018 9:05 am

Hi, I know it's been a while since so should probably just leave this thread to die but had to share.

My friend surprised me yesterday with a 4hr personal shoppers appointment at Debenhams to "give me a complete new look". Amongst the myriad of clothes I bought, at 27 years old, got my first bra and 2 piece bikini!

Going to the beach this afternoon, can't wait!

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Re: Thoughts on Men wearing panties

Postby Guest » Wed Nov 14, 2018 6:12 am

Yesterday I caught my bf wearing my pair of red with black polka dot knickers during a make out session that got alittle handsy. I was really turned on, especially as I was wearing the matching bra. It did annoy me though as I was planning to wear those knickers today to have the matching set, now I can't.

So guys, if you're gonna borrow our underwear please check with us before you help yourselves, some girls like to plan these things.

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Re: Thoughts on Men wearing panties

Postby Tina TV » Wed Nov 14, 2018 8:06 am

Have to say (again), guys shouldn't pinch their ladies things, you'll only stretch them out of shape or annoy as above by using something that is subsequently needed.

Either they should buy their own in the right size, or ladies you need to buy them for them. Ladies you'll get a far more attentive and interested guy while shopping if he knows that one or two items are gonna be for him.

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Re: Thoughts on Men wearing panties

Postby kilt/skirt/skort » Wed Nov 14, 2018 9:50 pm

I think that this is taking things a bit too far - MIX & MATCH but not the undies.
Best wait for a BOGO (Buy One - Get One) free or discounted.
Sizing shouldn't matter as long as the prices are the same or less.
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Re: Thoughts on Men wearing panties

Postby Guest » Wed Nov 14, 2018 10:25 pm

Noo, have to disagree there!

Matching undies is amazing, feel alot sexier when I'm matching. If he also matches me I literally can't walk!

I've got a set of tartan bra and boyshorts, he's got a pair of tartan briefs, they don't need to fight for any freedom for the fireworks start ;)

I also wear boys briefs occasionally, if he ever had the same ones on I would not be able to control my actions.

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Re: Thoughts on Men wearing panties

Postby Guest » Thu Dec 20, 2018 7:05 am

My bf found out I was wearing a jock strap the other day. I much prefer them to thongs coz you're not given that wedgie feeling or that kinda chaffing sensation on the bit between your pussy and your bum.

He did me up the bum whilst we were both still wearing our underwear, felt really naughty but I loved it!

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Re: Thoughts on Men wearing panties

Postby Guest » Thu Jan 03, 2019 7:13 pm

Was chilling with a friend (male) this morning and he wouldn't stop squirming. After a while he confessed that he was wearing a thong for the first time. Eventually I got him to show me and immediately saw the issue...

The idiot had it on backwards, the string bit was keeping his stones apart whilst his bum was covered. At least he was shaven so it didn't look completely horrific.

For Gods sakes boys, if you're gonna wear panties make sure you wear them right.. even if it does give us such a laugh.

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Re: Thoughts on Men wearing panties

Postby Tinkles » Wed Jan 16, 2019 7:50 am

What about girls wearing men's underwear? I wear y fronts and find then so much comfier than thongs or knickers, I actually shared an underwear draw with my ex and found it fun to wear sets of y-fronts
Oh my days! I wear men's briefs too, thought it was just me! My friends think it's odd and I get teased whenever underwear comes up but it's all in jest.

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Re: Thoughts on Men wearing panties

Postby Guest25 » Mon May 20, 2019 10:50 pm

Today there are so many men's underwear that are just about the same as ladies, I don't see the need to wear theirs unless it is just a fetish thing


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