mostirreverent wrote: Elysa wrote: mostirreverent wrote: Lady J 624 wrote:
mostirreverent wrote:I may be sexual, but don't think I flirt. I do see a difference.
behave as though attracted to or trying to attract someone, but for amusement rather than with serious intentions."
So you're serious about it?
is that a dictionary definition, or have you quoted me from another older post. My intentions are never just for amusement. Sure, I can play, but that is usually obvious. if I'm attracted, it's genuine.
I maybe a tease, but never a flirt
How come you consider flirting not genuine? I can be "extra" nice to a guy without sleeping with him, can't I?
And if you call me a tease, I'll rip you a new asshole. There's a difference!!
It all comes down to intent. I distinguish between playful teasing (with intent for if possible) from teasing without desire for something. Playful teasing is perhaps for the warming of the other in a positive way and in any way for good. Flirting is just for self satisfaction, or for some other reason other than to warm a groin or make one smile at the such a thought. When something i say tickles your fancy, I am pleased that there was a resonance. That is not flirting, but a genuine connection.
Who knows, maybe you are a tease. Letting guys chat you up in bars without intent… Maybe I just see flirting as teasing. it is more of a joke to say i tease, or just the effect of something i've said without meaning to be one.
*clears throat* I don't "let" anyone chat me up. If I get
chatted up, I'll make the appropriate response based how, who, what, when, why, and where. Nowadays, I won't reciprocate. Don't want to.
But, yes, I totally see your point. There's a difference between playful teasing and flirting with intent.
So Mosti, come here often?