Help neighbor just saw me naked through window!

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Re: Help neighbor just saw me naked through window!

Postby Starshine » Fri Oct 27, 2017 9:17 am

So, when you take your clothes off, like the rest of us, you are naked! You are an adult too.

I have no idea why you think he would tell your parents. Most of us have been seen naked by accident at some point in our lives.

This is feally no big deal.

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Re: Help neighbor just saw me naked through window!

Postby Amyonearth » Sat Oct 28, 2017 3:11 pm

light1313 wrote:You didnt do it on purpose. He shouldnt have been stalking. You shut the curtains as soon as you saw him. He should be the one embarrassed and ashamed of himself. If I were him I wouldnt say anything to your parents. You say they wont believe you because of something that happened. İf you tell more we may be able to understand the situation better and give better advice.

Thanks. True. Um Dont really want to go into that on a public forum haha. Too embarrassing!

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Re: Help neighbor just saw me naked through window!

Postby Amyonearth » Sat Oct 28, 2017 3:12 pm

Elysa wrote:And now you have no choice but to spill the beans about what you did. Your freak-out comes with a price.

Haha like i said to last poster. Too embarrassing to say on a public forum haha

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Re: Help neighbor just saw me naked through window!

Postby Amyonearth » Sat Oct 28, 2017 3:57 pm

Can someome understanding please message me. Thanks. Simple thing i dont want to type here

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Re: Help neighbor just saw me naked through window!

Postby Elysa » Sat Oct 28, 2017 4:25 pm

Amyonearth wrote:
Elysa wrote:And now you have no choice but to spill the beans about what you did. Your freak-out comes with a price.

Haha like i said to last poster. Too embarrassing to say on a public forum haha


Yes, of course. Because we all know your full name, address and blood type.

Chicken.

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Re: Help neighbor just saw me naked through window!

Postby Amyonearth » Sat Oct 28, 2017 4:38 pm

Haha yes i am a chicken :lol:

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Re: Help neighbor just saw me naked through window!

Postby UKGent » Sun Oct 29, 2017 1:40 am

Do you honestly believe that your neighbour, who you stated does not know you and your family very well, is going to admit to your parents that he saw you naked? One of the first in a quick fire line of questions your parents are going to ask is when did this occur, where did you see her naked and for how long. He will be put on the spot just as much as you probably will. Is he going to put himself through that hassle, I do not think so.

You have obviously 'flashed' before which is why you feel your parents will not believe you in this instance. If questions are asked then just be honest about it, you was drying your self off and did not realise the blinds was not fully closed but when you did, you quickly closed them. Even when telling the truth, your parents will either believe you or not. There is nothing you can do about that.

If you keep forgetting to close the blinds from now on then yes, your parents will begin to have doubts about the sincerity of your actions.

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Re: Help neighbor just saw me naked through window!

Postby Starshine » Sun Oct 29, 2017 7:48 am

I close the blinds when undressing/changing so as not to ofend others rather than because I'm bothered about being seen.

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Re: Help neighbor just saw me naked through window!

Postby happygirl » Mon Oct 30, 2017 9:27 am

I wouldn't worry about him seeing you just play dumb and if your dad has an issue with it ask him why he's ok.with the neighbour looking in at his daughter?
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Re: Help neighbor just saw me naked through window!

Postby Amyonearth » Mon Oct 30, 2017 11:38 am

Thanks everyone:)

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Re: Help neighbor just saw me naked through window!

Postby NottyNikki » Thu Jan 25, 2018 12:45 am

You did not do it deliberately.
The guy saw you nude, true…
But what can you do now?
It can't be undone.
You have not done anything wrong – or bad.
Just get on with life,
Act as if nothing happened. :)

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Re: Help neighbor just saw me naked through window!

Postby suzzie76 » Fri Jan 26, 2018 2:53 am

I wonder how many males in history have reported to parents or police seeing a younger naked woman getting changed in her house whether she did it deliberately or not? I'm suspecting not many.

I live on 15 ac of bush and at times walk around with not alot on and even shackled and had many a conversation with my elderly male neighbour when near the fence. We say hi and hows things and meanwhile a boob is half hanging out and/or other. It would seem somewhat surreal but being going on for so long now we talk about everything but what he can see. I very much doubt he tells his wife or races to the phone to call my husband (who wouldn't care).

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Re: Help neighbor just saw me naked through window!

Postby Gina-G » Wed Feb 14, 2018 8:16 pm

Tell us about being shackled Suzzie? Sounds horny!
Ditch the knickers; shaved or Brazilian is good.

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Re: Help neighbor just saw me naked through window!

Postby mx6 » Mon Feb 19, 2018 9:13 pm

Starshine wrote:I close the blinds when undressing/changing so as not to ofend others rather than because I'm bothered about being seen.


You're a right spoil sport! :(

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Re: Help neighbor just saw me naked through window!

Postby withhold » Fri Mar 09, 2018 12:15 pm

The concept of shame of being seen nude is irrational if you think about it. On hot
summer nights, i get out on my house's rooftop square totally naked and enjoy the
breeze.


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